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Old 04-18-2012, 11:48 PM
 
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So, here is my situtation, I Met this guy like a year ago and we became soo close and we are now best friends! The sad part is that I love him, and i always help him when he has girlfriend problems...
i dont know what to do...
at times i just wonder if he realizes that i love him.

help please?
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Old 04-18-2012, 11:52 PM
 
Location: Up above the world so high!
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So, here is my situtation, I Met this guy like a year ago and we became soo close and we are now best friends! The sad part is that I love him, and i always help him when he has girlfriend problems...
i dont know what to do...
at times i just wonder if he realizes that i love him.

help please?
Tell him how you feel.

He will either be glad to hear it, or he won't.

Either way, the truth will be out there.

And if he's glad to know how you feel you might have a chance at a relationship.

Nothing ventured, nothing gained
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Old 04-19-2012, 12:33 PM
 
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Tell him how you feel.

He will either be glad to hear it, or he won't.

Either way, the truth will be out there.

And if he's glad to know how you feel you might have a chance at a relationship.

Nothing ventured, nothing gained
He's engaged though >.<
That's the only thing that gets to me D:
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Old 04-19-2012, 12:35 PM
 
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What do you want help with?
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Old 04-19-2012, 12:35 PM
 
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He's engaged though >.<
That's the only thing that gets to me D:
You snooze you lose...
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Old 04-19-2012, 12:38 PM
 
Location: New York City
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You snooze you lose...
This.

If he cannot realize it then try to distance yourself really.. meet new people.
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Old 04-20-2012, 01:13 PM
 
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I say give him some. At the very least you won't have any regrets. Do it before he gets married and move on. All's fair in love and war and until he says I do he's open game. So break out those fish nets and do what you do.

I'm sure many of us looking back in history have a few people we met who we think now we should have knocked boots with when we had the chance and let it slip by..
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Old 04-20-2012, 01:18 PM
 
Location: Whiteville Tennessee
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I say give him some. At the very least you won't have any regrets. Do it before he gets married and move on. All's fair in love and war and until he says I do he's open game. So break out those fish nets and do what you do.

I'm sure many of us looking back in history have a few people we met who we think now we should have knocked boots with when we had the chance and let it slip by..
Sounds about right. But since you know he's engaged and you do give him a little sumpinsumpin, how are you going to feel about lovin a cheater?
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Old 04-20-2012, 01:20 PM
 
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Sounds about right. But since you know he's engaged and you do give him a little sumpinsumpin, how are you going to feel about lovin a cheater?
Exactly. If they'll cheat with you, they'll cheat on you. Learned that lesson the hard way.
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Old 04-20-2012, 01:58 PM
 
Location: On the corner of Grey Street
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He's ENGAGED. Are you trying to be a home wrecker here? Leave him alone...find some new friends. If your friend felt the same way about you he wouldn't be marrying someone else.
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