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Now, at what point did it become your (new) wife's obligation to have sex with you more frequently than you were when you were dating? Is it because you are now living together? Is it because she is now your wife and that includes certain obligations?
Enlighten me please....
I find it rather sad that you fear marriage and raising children...because you fear sex may become less....you're missing out on a great part of life...but to each his own.....I feel sad for you that you would choose a path in life based on what other men have said about how lacking their sex lives are...it doesn't have to be that way you know....the frequency that you have sex doesn't have to change just because you marry someone....and for those in a respectful...thoughful...mature...loving...curteou s...supporting...marriage it doesn't...it might slow down a little with children around...but that's not to say that it can't pick up, and become even more when they're not....sex can never be good when one of the partners feels "obliged"....and that could only happen when someone expects way more than they're willing to give of themselves.
I'll throw the health issue into the debate ... unfortunately, I still have the same raging hormones I had as a teenager (I'm 57) ... it's unfortunate because with my wife's many health issues, sex has averaged about once a month for 7-8 years ...
Sorry to say it but most of the women getting cheating on aren't giving it out at home or are nagging bytches and the husband can't take it anymore..
I hate to admit that you're probably right, with the exception of certain guys. You know the type, there is a certain type of guy that just has that look and personality where you KNOW he's a cheater. I dated a couple in college, and, yeah, once I got to know the type, I can recognize it from a mile away. But in most cases, the ones where people gasp and whisper and say things like "Wow, I can't believe it"...that's often the reason.
I'm so glad my husband and I still can't keep our hands off each other. I guess we're either very lucky, very well matched, or just horny. Not sure which.
My wife and I, when we were dating would have sex atleast 5 times a week! Then we got married it went down to 2 times a week, then we had 2 more kids in the next 6yrs and i was lucky if it was 4-5 times a month, but for the ladt 2 years i am lucky if its once every 6weeks if not longer! She is a stay at home mom. I cook, clean, do all shopping and pay all the bills. I can't seem to understand what i am. Doing wrong?? Maybe a women com enlighten me on my problem lol???
My wife and I, when we were dating would have sex atleast 5 times a week! Then we got married it went down to 2 times a week, then we had 2 more kids in the next 6yrs and i was lucky if it was 4-5 times a month, but for the ladt 2 years i am lucky if its once every 6weeks if not longer! She is a stay at home mom. I cook, clean, do all shopping and pay all the bills. I can't seem to understand what i am. Doing wrong?? Maybe a women com enlighten me on my problem lol???
I recommend you read "The Five Love Languages" and be willing to learn which one your wife speaks (then she can learn which one you speak).
Don't let this situation continue or you'll end up either cheating or just leaving home once your kids grow up
Sorry to say it but most of the women getting cheating on aren't giving it out at home or are nagging bytches and the husband can't take it anymore..
Ah, no wonder.
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