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I have been living in the same apt building from my neighbor for two years. for the 1 and a half he's been trying to get with me. I turned him down and gave him attitude, he was so annoying. During that year and a half he invited me to come to his place on numerous occasions. A few times I went, but i left because I knew what he wanted and I didn't to do anything with him. One night in August (2011) he knocked on my door, i let him in and we talked. Next thing you know we had sex. I was drinking a little. He often has different females over but after that it stopped for a while. I guess since I wasn't paying attention to him he started to have them come over again. The next time we had sex was in Dec. and I was the initiator. After we had sex this time, females stopped coming over for about two weeks. Again, I paid him no attention and the females started coming over again. We had sex last Saturday, again, I was the initiator. No females have been over all week. Once he said to me, you don't never knock on the door. I told him "because you always seem to be busy and he replied "No! I make moves when you make moves". I want to knock on his door but I am very hesitant. He hasn't knocked on my door at all this week, but i would like him to. What is this all about? I am so confused
Eww...you have seen for yourself that random women come and go in between your trysts with him yet you still have sex with him?
Then there's some serious repetition of "females," which is not something a woman would do, or if OP is a woman, that only proves my point what sort of a woman uses this sort of vocabulary.
I for one think this is a fake set-up posted by a guy.
I was 50/50 when I read the first post on this. I still not 100% certain it's a man considering some women talk that way ie "Call each other Dude sometimes"
You're giving mixed signals. He likes you, you give him sex and then you ignore him. He doesn't know what to think. So he goes back to other women. Then you act interested in him, give him sex and then ignore him again. He doesn't know what to think again. You both are repeating the same actions. After awhile he'll stop giving you attention and move on and then you'll write on the forum that he just wanted sex and nothing more.
My question. Do you like him? If so, tell him you're interested in him and see if he's interested in you. People don't know how to communicate anymore. Girls/women are thinking it's the man's job to take the initiative and chasing the woman. Don't play games. You don't want someone chasing you, you want someone to like you so that you can have a meaningful relationship or friendship with them.
This is awesome. It's basically the same thing she is already doing! Sad, really.
Whats sad about 2 adults wanting to get some sex sometime It apparently works for fullfilling a need in both of them. No ones being taken advantage of.
You two are using each other. Admit it and own it for what it is.
It won't be anything more because you gave him attitude and don't talk to him between hook-ups. He sees you as an easy lay, you see him as an easy lay, end of story.
Whats sad about 2 adults wanting to get some sex sometime It apparently works for fullfilling a need in both of them. No ones being taken advantage of.
For starters, it's sad that people are so willing to use and be used without love and a deep commitment. What's sadder is that we are so freaking brainwashed into thinking this is actually ok that these questions such as yours are even asked.
And yes, the entire situation reeks of advantage-taking!
For starters, it's sad that people are so willing to use and be used without love and a deep commitment. What's sadder is that we are so freaking brainwashed into thinking this is actually ok that these questions such as yours are even asked.
And yes, the entire situation reeks of advantage-taking!
Speak for yourself. I believe you are the one in the minority who believes that two consenting adults can't have a sexual relationship without commitment. Men and women have needs and desires.
.........it's sad that people are so willing to use and be used without love and a deep commitment...........
Obviously love is not an issue. The only thing deep is not commitment. They get an itch, they get someone properly equipped to scratch it. Sounds to me like just being a good neighbor sort of thing, except the OP wants some romance he isn't providing. Seems to me the least he could do is leave some $4 Colombian flowers from the grocery store telling her she was a good lay and thanks for the ride. Course she should have done the same. Who knows, maybe it will end up in a nooner or breakfast dessert if she plays it right. I don't know anyone that doesn't like going to work with a smile on their face.
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