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View Poll Results: How goes it be?
About 50/50 ("We keep a close eye on the scoreboard!") 1 9.09%
About 75/25 ("I do all the work for my lazy jerk!") 2 18.18%
About 25/75 ("They are so wrapped around my finger") 6 54.55%
About 0/0 ("You stay in your corner and I'll stay in mine") 2 18.18%
Voters: 11. You may not vote on this poll

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Old 04-24-2012, 01:31 PM
 
Location: NY metro area
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That doesn't sound the LEAST bit "gay"!


The fact is, it's one of those things which is amazingly enjoyable and casually intimate. It would be GREAT to be with someone who would lean back against me, snuggly during a movie, or lie a head in my lap, and I could just kind of let my hands lose themselves in the slow, gentle brush of fingers through hair, fingertips on scalp in that tickly, rubbing motion which is so soothing.

um...

okay, now *I* sound kind of gay, sorry!
My husband is a really smart man, but for some reason he keeps missing my subtle cues about "hair play." I know how much he loves massages and I'm happy to make him feel good, I just wish he'd catch on to what "playing with my hair" could do for him.
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Old 04-24-2012, 02:07 PM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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My husband doesn't like giving or getting massages. I like getting them and I would gladly give on in return - there isn't much of a point in me giving him a massage if he doesn't want one. He'll give me a massage if I ask - which I really don't do very often (a couple times when I was pregnant, sometimes when I have a migraine). He usually massages me for a few minutes and then says, "Is that good enough?"
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Old 04-24-2012, 02:07 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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My husband is a really smart man, but for some reason he keeps missing my subtle cues about "hair play." I know how much he loves massages and I'm happy to make him feel good, I just wish he'd catch on to what "playing with my hair" could do for him.
Just shove your head into his hands! Have you not seen how cats ask to be petted? Same way some guys "ask" for a BJ - hopefully, just in porn...
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Old 04-24-2012, 02:14 PM
 
Location: NY metro area
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Just shove your head into his hands! Have you not seen how cats ask to be petted? Same way some guys "ask" for a BJ - hopefully, just in porn...
LMAO!!!! Thank god Im not drinking anything or it would be all over my computer!!! LOL

I'm gonna have to give the whole "cat" thing a try!!!
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Old 04-24-2012, 02:16 PM
 
Location: USA
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otherwise have typically received that quick, almost irritated "pinch-pinch-pinch --
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Ive had girlfriends like that; that gave the ehh, I'll poke you a few times with my fingers. Female equivalent to the roll over move

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Fortunately, there are plenty of men willing to give massages and to many it's even their pleasure. Bite ME!
That would discribe me, how can you not like to make your GF or SO feel good: Light back massage head to toe, repeat front, rollover to back with deep tissue with warm oil head to toe, repeat front. Finish with warm all over xxxs. Followed by TMI

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Old 04-24-2012, 02:31 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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Femal equivalent to the roll over move
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Old 04-24-2012, 02:32 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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Light back massage head to toe, repeat front, rollover to back with deep tissue with warm oil head to toe, repeat front. Finish with warm all over xxxs. Followed by TMI
When did you say you were gonna be in the neighborhood?
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Old 04-24-2012, 02:57 PM
 
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When did you say you were gonna be in the neighborhood?
Left the darn Massage table in San Diego
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Old 04-24-2012, 02:59 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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Left the darn Massage table in San Diego
That's OK. I'm not THAT picky!
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Old 04-24-2012, 03:20 PM
 
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That would discribe me, how can you not like to make your GF or SO feel good: Light back massage head to toe, repeat front, rollover to back with deep tissue with warm oil head to toe, repeat front. Finish with warm all over xxxs. Followed by TMI
That sounds really nice.
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