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Yes, good point. So, for those of you women who DO share details, intimate details, of your sex life with friends, how would it make you feel if your SO did the exact same thing? When you do that new sexy thing, he goes out and tells all his close friends. Describes how it feels as you are giving him oral, etc. Details exactly what you do to drive him wild in intimate detail. And then you are around his friends and being guys, I can tell you they are thinking of exactly that. Thinking of you having sex like he described while you're sitting there talking to them. How would that feel?
No. But my friend does tell me things are not going well for her marriage...he is always angry...she is.always too upset for sex....which makes him more angry....and the cycle continues...I suggested a Brazilian wax...she was shocked. Not thinking things will improve....
As a general rule, no I don't discuss my sex life with my girlfriends. However, having said that, I have a couple of women friends that I know I can talk to about some of the more "detailed" information because I know they have similar "procilivities." I have some kinks that I would not be comfortable telling most of my friends about but I also need to have a couple of people to whom I can go for some feedback from time to time. The two women I confide in neither know the men in question or one another and I can be brutally honest about my situation. I also have two men friends to whom I can confide as well and know I will get honest, non-judgemental advice from a male perspective (both very straight but with similar proclivites). So, I have four people that are somewhat outside the circle of my closest friends who I can talk to without fear of shocking them or repelling them and with whom I can discuss anything of interest to me.
As a general rule, no I don't discuss my sex life with my girlfriends. However, having said that, I have a couple of women friends that I know I can talk to about some of the more "detailed" information because I know they have similar "procilivities." I have some kinks that I would not be comfortable telling most of my friends about but I also need to have a couple of people to whom I can go for some feedback from time to time. The two women I confide in neither know the men in question or one another and I can be brutally honest about my situation. I also have two men friends to whom I can confide as well and know I will get honest, non-judgemental advice from a male perspective (both very straight but with similar proclivites). So, I have four people that are somewhat outside the circle of my closest friends who I can talk to without fear of shocking them or repelling them and with whom I can discuss anything of interest to me.
It is good being able to talk frankly about specifics. How else are you going to learn. I'm not talking about naming names either. Ive seen many over 30+ year old women who had no more knowledge of their own sexuality than a virgin. I'm sure the same applies to men.
Yes, good point. So, for those of you women who DO share details, intimate details, of your sex life with friends, how would it make you feel if your SO did the exact same thing? When you do that new sexy thing, he goes out and tells all his close friends. Describes how it feels as you are giving him oral, etc. Details exactly what you do to drive him wild in intimate detail. And then you are around his friends and being guys, I can tell you they are thinking of exactly that. Thinking of you having sex like he described while you're sitting there talking to them. How would that feel?
It is good being able to talk frankly about specifics. How else are you going to learn. I'm not talking about naming names either. Ive seen many over 30+ year old women who had no more knowledge of their own sexuality than a virgin. I'm sure the same applies to men.
they should 'share' with women that care to hear it then and not with ones that don't. that's the problem they feel sharing with all of us is somehow pertinent to the rest of us and it isn't.
Benjamin Franklin once said, "Three may keep a secret, as long as two of them are dead."
Personally, as a guy, I can't imagine ever telling anyone about my sex life. I didn't do it when I was single, and I certainly wouldn't do it when I was married. It's not like I had tawdry escapades that included leather, barbed wire, restraints, motor oil, and live poultry. I was just raised to believe that a gentleman doesn't kiss and tell.
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. I'm not talking about naming names either. Ive seen many over 30+ year old women who had no more knowledge of their own sexuality than a virgin. I'm sure the same applies to men.
