So this girl said "ummmmmm no"

[Ro2113]

Originally Posted by 8635angelvalley

Don't dog her out just get to know her as a person. Why was she asking about kissing etc. is she 12?

She's the one doing the dogging out. If she wasn't into the OP to begin with then she doesn't need to know all those things.

OP, you dodged a bullet.

[Mister Miaugie]

Originally Posted by Ro2113

She's the one doing the dogging out. If she wasn't into the OP to begin with then she doesn't need to know all those things.

OP, you dodged a bullet.

This is kinda hard to explain, but i'll do my best
I think I was struck, but not fatally wounded lol!
I remember when I asked her out, my gut feelings were like "Woah dude, you don't even know her like that! You asked too early!" I then let that emotion come upon my face and I conveyed that message by simply looking into her eyes after I asked her out. And then, without me even saying anything, she just said "yeah, I have to get to know you more before I can even go out with you". It was like a weird telepathic connection.

[D217]

Originally Posted by Mister Miaugie

Wow, she is probably playing games. Like she told me she liked me, but then she says no. Thats not even logical, how can anyone explain that. I guess I gotta move "on to the next one". But I still have this shadow in the back of my head saying "shes still interested in you, just give her time, get to know her more than bam ask out a second time" Answers?

Young people are like this. It's just a way of life. You can't really avoid playing those teenage games, as some of the older people here suggest. You really just have to experience it for yourself in order to learn what works and what doesn't work for you.

If you like her, stick with it. Give it some time, but respect that she just got out of a "crappy" relationship and don't hold your breath!