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Old 05-01-2012, 10:30 PM
 
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What should a woman do when she been in a marriage for 16 years husband drinks daily been in jail for drinking 2 times 6 m os than 15 mos moved his family all cross town 10 places lies never pay bills cheats physical verbal mental abruser to his wife and kids just started working 6 months ago wife has carried the weight now he is at it again claiming to be the man cheating lieing put her in troble with finances again but she is afraid to tell hhim its over because he has hit her before she also do not want to sleep with him because he cheats .
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Old 05-01-2012, 10:46 PM
 
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My point of view is you need to learn how to construct a basic sentence. This is completely unreadable.
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Old 05-01-2012, 10:57 PM
 
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Are you really looking for a mans opinion or just venting? You know the answer to your situation, you just need to take the initiative and have the determination to see it through or get you to a different place where life isn't as complicated for you. Good luck.
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Old 05-01-2012, 10:58 PM
 
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Why does the answer need to come from a man? Do you need a man to tell you what to do?

Heck, do you need anyone to tell you what to do? Or are you just looking for confirmation of the obvious, which is that you need to go to a shelter for battered women, get counseling, and leave him before he kills you.
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Old 05-01-2012, 10:58 PM
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What should a woman do when she been in a marriage for 16 years husband drinks daily been in jail for drinking 2 times 6 m os than 15 mos moved his family all cross town 10 places lies never pay bills cheats physical verbal mental abruser to his wife and kids just started working 6 months ago wife has carried the weight now he is at it again claiming to be the man cheating lieing put her in troble with finances again but she is afraid to tell hhim its over because he has hit her before she also do not want to sleep with him because he cheats .
You don't need a man's point of view unless he's an English Teacher.

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My point of view is you need to learn how to construct a basic sentence. This is completely unreadable.
Ditto
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Old 05-01-2012, 10:59 PM
 
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I suspect that you stay with him because you are incapable of supporting yourself.

Divorce would have occurred to most women by now.
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Old 05-01-2012, 11:08 PM
 
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Why are you looking for a man's opinion?! GET OUT NOW before you turn up in the emergency room, or dead. Call a women's shelter, take the kids. How bad does it have to get before you'll leave? You won't be any help to your kids if you're battered, or worse, dead.

GET. OUT. NOW.

You can look into filing for divorce after you're safe. Those shelters can probably refer you to volunteer legal counsel.
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Old 05-02-2012, 06:00 AM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Yep, find a women's shelter in your area. They can get you the help you need, and it's usually FREE.
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Old 05-02-2012, 06:22 AM
 
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Leave.... There's your answers..
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Old 05-02-2012, 06:53 AM
 
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What should a woman do when she been in a marriage for 16 years husband drinks daily been in jail for drinking 2 times 6 m os than 15 mos moved his family all cross town 10 places lies never pay bills cheats physical verbal mental abruser to his wife and kids just started working 6 months ago wife has carried the weight now he is at it again claiming to be the man cheating lieing put her in troble with finances again but she is afraid to tell hhim its over because he has hit her before she also do not want to sleep with him because he cheats .
Ummm...do you have any education or skills?

My advice is to enroll in community college pronto.
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