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Old 05-02-2012, 12:28 PM
 
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I refuse to think every 22 year old woman is like that.

Sounds like a bad match that had nothing to do with the 3 year age difference.
they arent, thats why i didnt say that all 22 year old women are like that. but some are. My example was to demonstrate the maturity level of some
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Old 05-02-2012, 02:28 PM
 
Location: Austin
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As a friend of mine once said, jokingly of course, "If she's old enough to cut her own food, she's fair game."
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Old 05-02-2012, 02:30 PM
 
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As a friend of mine once said, jokingly of course, "If she's old enough to cut her own food, she's fair game."
Is that like "if shes old enough to bleed shes old enough to breed"? More graphic of course.
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Old 05-02-2012, 02:34 PM
 
Location: New Jersey
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who cares? you all won't be together by the time she's your age anyways. you'll have found another younger 'model' by then i'm sure.
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Old 05-02-2012, 03:14 PM
 
Location: USA
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who cares? you all won't be together by the time she's your age anyways. you'll have found another younger 'model' by then i'm sure.
Love your take Doll, you definately speak your mind. I always play the odds and most people go through many relationships between 20-36. I would put 5-1 odds of it not lasting.

As far as compatibity goes if your social/support group covers a wide range of ages I can see it as quite possible. If 90% of her friends are late teens early 20s theres is little support on her end.

When I was 30 I was seeing a woman who was close to 50 for a time. Our closest group of friends was from 20-60s and we didn't get any grief from anyone.

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Old 05-02-2012, 04:25 PM
 
Location: New Jersey
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Love your take Doll, you definately speak your mind. I always play the odds and most people go through many relationships between 20-36. I would put 5-1 odds of it not lasting.

As far as compatibity goes if your social/support group covers a wide range of ages I can see it as quite possible. If 90% of her friends are late teens early 20s theres is little support on her end.

When I was 30 I was seeing a woman who was close to 50 for a time. Our closest group of friends was from 20-60s and we didn't get any grief from anyone.
well that's surprising in your situation of dating a woman that much older. but imo i think it's seen as some kind of fling but then again your not still with that woman right? LOL. But i agree if her friends are really young, forget it. usually i notice he's interested in the age and her youthfulness and not much else that she may or may not have to offer. can't take someone like that seriously.
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Old 05-02-2012, 09:17 PM
 
Location: Atlanta & NYC
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So I met this woman, she great, beautiful, fun, and so full of life! Wonderful laugh...I met her about six months ago, and recently we starting dating...she's 21 and I'm 36....is that too much of a difference, I think it is...I don't know , give me ur thoughts...
Not at all too much of a difference. Relationships should be about getting together with a close personality, not someone of the same or almost-the-same age.
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Old 05-02-2012, 10:21 PM
 
Location: earth?
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It's all about compatibility. If you share values, interests, and goals, it's a "go."
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Old 05-02-2012, 10:41 PM
 
Location: 39 20' 59"N / 75 30' 53"W
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So I met this woman, she great, beautiful, fun, and so full of life! Wonderful laugh...I met her about six months ago, and recently we starting dating...she's 21 and I'm 36....is that too much of a difference, I think it is...I don't know , give me ur thoughts...
Age aside, how is the relationship working so far?
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Old 05-02-2012, 10:59 PM
 
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15 years is not a big deal, compatibility is.
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