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He was seeing another girl during these 2 weeks...
I know everything about it, 1. 'cause I could feel it...
2.when I asked him he answered honestly... But they broke up (dont even know if you can call it a break up after only 2 weeks ) and he came back to me.
It was nothing..."official" none of us ever said that we should have some time apart, or see other people or nothing at all...
Things weren't great between us about a week or two before we simply didn't talk at all for 2 weeks.
You know it all happened naturally...the 3 phone calls a day gradually turned into 2...then 1...then...none.The meeting every day turned into meeting only on weekends and the going out on double dates with friends and going OUT in general turned from once a week to once a month...
Then as I said we simply had no contact at all for 2 weeks.
Then just like it ended , it started all over...the phone calls, and the meeting, and the dates...and it actually got better...as I said, now I feel like he's actually listening to me, like he actually CARES about me...
And I also got to appreciate him much more after 2 weeks of not hearing from him and from 2 other dates with 2 other man.(which I told him about them as well...)I just realized how special he is and how much I love him exactly after being apart.
That's why I don't see it as a bad thing.It actually got us even closer.
And he was man enough to admit he was dating someone else.
Sounds like he was more into that other girl, but maybe she dumped him, and you were his backup plan.
He's probably still into her, and the fact he won't kiss you and you can't even talk to him is a big freaking deal.
Kissing , the way a man kisses you , or doesn't kiss you really does say a lot. You need to ask him. I know he is one of those that doesn't like discussing stuff , but important things should be addredsed. I feel the lack of kissing is telling you something. You could wait to see if this improves say , in the next two weeks , maybe (you,ve only been back together 2 weeks , right?) Maybe he's just getting comfortable again- but I doubt it. Doesn't sound good to be honest.
I...can't.
I know it'll sound stupid but...I can talk to him about ANYTHING, and I mean it.
I've talked to him about things that I've never told anyone else.
But when it comes to talking about how I feel or what I want (during sex too ) I just...can't.
It won't come out of my mouth.Maybe it has something to do with my ego...maybe I don't want to sound like a big whiny baby, maybe I'm just embarrassed...I don't know...but I just can't.
Honestly, if you want a relationship with someone, you better learn how to communicate your feelings. Put your embarrassment (or ego?) aside. Someone who cares for you will take your feelings into consideration. If they don't bother, then you have your answer about where the relationship is going.
Ask him.
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) and he came back to me.
) I just...can't.
