Why do women over-complicate sex? (attractive, clubs, interested, reason)

[findly185]

Originally Posted by onihC

Don't remember guys looking a woman with disgust "Oh my gaaawd, look at her tsk tsk tsk, she's soooooo slutty". Aren't women the ones who point the fingers at each other?

Men do it sneakily. They will sleep with the girls who they will later deem "sluts' but they marry the virgin. Same thing different packaging.

[Doll Eyes]

Originally Posted by onihC

Don't remember guys looking a woman with disgust "Oh my gaaawd, look at her tsk tsk tsk, she's soooooo slutty". Aren't women the ones who point the fingers at each other?

Well if they do think this, they're smart enough not to say it out loud. Certainly wouldn't do them any good to do so now would it.

edit: they don't 'marry the virgin' that's a myth, they don't even want to date the virgins.

[Trimac20]

Originally Posted by findly185

Men do it sneakily. They will sleep with the girls who they will later deem "sluts' but they marry the virgin. Same thing different packaging.

Yes...they want their girlfriend to be white as the driven snow, yet all the girls they have flings with, what about them?

[findly185]

Originally Posted by Trimac20

Yes...they want their girlfriend to be white as the driven snow, yet all the girls they have flings with, what about them?

They're disposable. They will talk to their buddies about them in a negative light and will forget their names once they are married with children. But hey, we cant all be virgin's. So accept the title I guess.

[onihC]

Originally Posted by Ruth4Truth

Not that I'm aware of. Women do point the fingers at men who use women, though.

Women point fingers at each other but not at those who use men, that we know.

With all women's competition and jealousy among them, it makes sense why it is women who would normally point their fingers at those sleeping around.

Originally Posted by findly185

Men do it sneakily. They will sleep with the girls who they will later deem "sluts' but they marry the virgin. Same thing different packaging.

Marry a virgin? If men wanted to marry a virgin they would remain single all their life. Really, how many good looking women remain a virgin after 16? Come on. Ok ok, sure, there are exceptions.

Besides, virgins seem to be a nuisance to both men and women.

[findly185]

Originally Posted by onihC

Women point fingers at each other but not at those who use men, that we know.

With all women's competition, and jealousy among them, it makes sense why it is women who would normally point their fingers at those sleeping around.



Marry a virgin? If men wanted to marry a virgin they would remain single all their life. Really, how many good looking women remain a virgin after 16? Come on. Ok ok, sure, there are exceptions.

Besides, virgins seem to be a nuisance to both men and women.

I agree, but really, it is a known fact that a majority of men dont want to be in a LTR with a women who has had a lot of sexual partners. One or two is the normal consensus for someone marrying for the first time in their 20's.

[Ruth4Truth]

Originally Posted by onihC

Really, how many good looking women remain a virgin after 16? Come on. Ok ok, sure, there are exceptions.

Just because a woman is good-looking doesn't mean she's interested in sex at an early age. It also doesn't mean she has any interest in the kind of guys who would approach her. I've known beautiful women who like the shy, nice guys. But it takes the women a long time to figure out that they have to make the first move with the shy guys.

OnihC, you are SO full of strange ideas and stereotypes that don't have much relation to the real world!

[onihC]

Originally Posted by findly185

I agree, but really, it is a known fact that a majority of men dont want to be in a LTR with a women who has had a lot of sexual partners. One or two is the normal consensus for someone marrying for the first time in their 20's.

I agree and I find it a bit hypocritical from those guys who don’t want a girl who slept around, yet, they are sleeping around without a care, come on. May not be interested in a girl like that but I still don’t see men pointing fingers, I would expect that more from women to women for the reasons I mentioned in the post before this one.

[Doll Eyes]

Originally Posted by onihC

Women point fingers at each other but not at those who use men, that we know.

With all women's competition and jealousy among them, it makes sense why it is women who would normally point their fingers at those sleeping around.



Marry a virgin? If men wanted to marry a virgin they would remain single all their life. Really, how many good looking women remain a virgin after 16? Come on. Ok ok, sure, there are exceptions.

Besides, virgins seem to be a nuisance to both men and women.

Well I don't think I'm bad looking and have had my share of compliments, not a supermodel though. it's likely never occurred to you that looks aren't the only problem a woman could have.

I'm gonna assume that last line was a joke and not respond, as it's unlikely to go anywhere with you.

[onihC]

Originally Posted by Ruth4Truth

Just because a woman is good-looking doesn't mean she's interested in sex at an early age. It also doesn't mean she has any interest in the kind of guys who would approach her. I've known beautiful women who like the shy, nice guys. But it takes the women a long time to figure out that they have to make the first move with the shy guys.

I am talking about virginity in general. How many are still a virgin after high school? This is not a stereotype, it's a fact not a strange idea or whatever you are accusing me of.

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