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And I have dated off and on forever, but I don't sleep with everyone I have dated. Some of us can go awhile without a relationship AND still stay chaste during that time.
I may never find the right match either, but I won't opt for mediocre sex in its' place.
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And I have dated off and on forever, but I don't sleep with everyone I have dated. Some of us can go awhile without a relationship AND still stay chaste during that time.
I may never find the right match either, but I won't opt for mediocre sex in its' place.
What if cats could stop being cats and be dogs. I have one suggestion for you. Step AWAY from the computer>Go to nearest bookstore>Grab the first copy you see of Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus>Read>Come back to internet>Post thoughts. Something tells me you're going to see things in a whole new light.
Also "Smart Women, Stupid Choices."
There are actually a myriad of books about this. "Things Women Do to Mess up their Lives"
Okay. Instead of throwing around 'she's slept around.' someone asked what are the 'numbers' for women to qualify for that? Also what if women thought the way you guys did: "We only want men who's had 1 or 2 partners, period." Bottom line: you guys want your cake and eat it too.
When you say "we only want men with one or 2 partners" you mean for a fling? Or longterm relationship? I need clarification
Another thing, guys will Have flings or FWB relationships with promiscuous women but they're never going to be in relationships with them
However the problem with whay you said above is, that it would never happen because women don't care about the number of people a guy has had sex with.... But guys do. In fact alot of women are intrigued by being with a man who many women found phsyically attractive. "There's something he must be doing right in the bedroom if all these girls have slept with him". I've heard things along those lines from several women. It's also one of the reasons why guys say they get more attention when they have a girlfriend then the times they are single.
A guy will NEVER be turned down for a relationship because he was too promiscuous, but a female on the other hand
When you say "we only want men with one or 2 partners" you mean for a fling? Or longterm relationship? I need clarification
However the problem with whay you said above is, that it would never happen because women don't care about the number of people a guy has had sex with.... But guys do. In fact alot of women are intrigued by being with a man who many women found phsyically attractive. "There's something he must be doing right in the bedroom if all these girls have slept with him". I've heard things along those lines from several women. It's also one of the reasons why guys say they get more attention when they have a girlfriend then the times they are single.
A guy will NEVER be turned down for a relationship because he was too promiscuous, but a female on the other hand
Another good point. It only makes sense to want something that everyone else wants as well.
Who wants something no one else wants? If no one is interested, it raises red flags.
Location: Everybody is going to hurt you, you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for-B Marley
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When you say "we only want men with one or 2 partners" you mean for a fling? Or longterm relationship? I need clarification
Another thing, guys will Have flings or FWB relationships with promiscuous women but they're never going to be in relationships with them
However the problem with whay you said above is, that it would never happen because women don't care about the number of people a guy has had sex with.... But guys do. In fact alot of women are intrigued by being with a man who many women found phsyically attractive. "There's something he must be doing right in the bedroom if all these girls have slept with him". I've heard things along those lines from several women. It's also one of the reasons why guys say they get more attention when they have a girlfriend then the times they are single.
A guy will NEVER be turned down for a relationship because he was too promiscuous, but a female on the other hand
Women are intrigued by men THEY find attractive. Most of us don't give a crap what the next woman thinks/thought of him.
A guy will NEVER be turned down for a relationship because he was too promiscuous, but a female on the other hand
How would you even know if a woman has been promiscuous? What if she lies about her past?
And btw, having a lot of women has nothing to do with prowess in the bedroom. It has everything to do with having the right m.o. and targeting vulnerable women, or in some cases, just being good-looking. See, thinking it's about the bedroom is the way guys think. You all assume it's all about your organ. Reality couldn't be farther from the truth. Another guy projecting a guy's mindset onto women... That's C-D for you.
This is so utterly ridiculous! You're assuming that just because a woman's attractive she's into being promiscuous. It's the guys who are more into being players (except for the shy guys, hi, shy guys, I know you're there! ) It's guys who have a much more challenging time going without sex. It's guys who are more likely to remarry after divorce.
Women cannot have sex with a lot of people, just like that, at the drop of a hat. Not that they'd want to, anyway. But what do you think women do, just walk out the door and bag the first guy who walks by, or hang out on a street corner until someone picks her up? Get REAL!!
I never said she's into being promiscuous I said that she can EASILY be promiscuous. Let's be honest, with all the horny and willing guys out here an attractive woman as you put it can pretty Much have sex with most of the guys she wants and pretty easily.
But, clearly, AS SEEN ON CD, men do just as much to mess up their lives, just different things than we do. Let's promote books for them too.
I wish I knew of some...
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) It's guys who have a much more challenging time going without sex. It's guys who are more likely to remarry after divorce.
