Why do women over-complicate sex? (loving, personality, casual, social)

[findly185]

What I find interesting is that I said nothing about having a million sexual partners, but the first thing everyone thinks when I mention a women not having an emotional attachment to a man she's sleeping with, everyone yells "SL*T"!!!

Speaks volumes.

[Opsimathia]

Originally Posted by findly185

So the consensus here is that women have more to risk so that's why they form this insatiable emotional attachment?

Remove pregnancy from the equation. Then what?

The "I want to miss you/keep things feeling new" relationship.
Maybe he should try:

'Love Hormone' Promotes Bonding: Could It Treat Anxiety?

"He adds that people with schizophrenia or autism often avoid eye-to-eye gaze, focus on less relevant areas of the face, and avoid meaningful social contact." - interesting....


Maybe you just never hit stage 3:
The science of love

[skel1977]

Because women are all about how they feel. Men are not.

[Opsimathia]

Originally Posted by findly185

The pill is a joke. It's as effective as asking a guy to put on a condom.

Yeh and those never break or leak or fall off.

But I guess you can just go get an abortion. But there are risks despite what your moral stance is on it.

Abortion Risks: A list of major physical complications related to abortion | After Abortion

One set of complications for another.

[findly185]

Originally Posted by Opsimathia

Yeh and those never break or leak or fall off.

But I guess you can just go get an abortion. But there are risks despite what your moral stance is on it.

Abortion Risks: A list of major physical complications related to abortion | After Abortion

One set of complications for another.

I guess you're not getting my sarcasm. I am saying neither are effective forms of birth control. People who think they are, are highly misinformed.

I'm not sure what the relevance of this is to women not having an emotional attachment to a man she is sleeping with.

[LookinForMayberry]

Originally Posted by findly185

I have managed to disconnect a lot of the emotional attachment that goes along with sex (unless I am in a relationship with someone I love) and let me tell you how much easier it is. .... What if women could step away from that, have sex and not necessarily have emotional attachments, but rather, to fulfill a need.Thoughts?

Okay, my thoughts are how sad for you that you share your body with someone you do not care about, and then expect others to become just as detached as yourself. Not that you don't have many just like you to associate with, if you could call it an association.

Personally, sex without emotional attachment is not a need for me. In fact, the idea leaves me cold. Why not just get yourself a toy?

[Opsimathia]

Originally Posted by findly185

What I find interesting is that I said nothing about having a million sexual partners, but the first thing everyone thinks when I mention a women not having an emotional attachment to a man she's sleeping with, everyone yells "SL*T"!!!

Speaks volumes.

Its not a numbers game.

http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/**** (broken link)

" a slovenly woman"

Slovenly = excessive carelessness/casual

[findly185]

Originally Posted by Opsimathia

Its not a numbers game.

http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/**** (broken link)

" a slovenly woman"

Slovenly = excessive carelessness/casual

So a women cant be cautious and careful unless she attaches emotions to sex?

[Opsimathia]

Originally Posted by findly185

I guess you're not getting my sarcasm. I am saying neither are effective forms of birth control. People who think they are, are highly misinformed.

I'm not sure what the relevance of this is to women not having an emotional attachment to a man she is sleeping with.

Well you can see my other post on that. You said its so complicated to have sex and care about the person. I am just pointing out its complicated when sex enters the picture no matter what your feelings are. So why be cheap about it? We can't all be disassociated sociopaths even if we want to.

[Opsimathia]

Originally Posted by findly185

So a women cant be cautious and careful unless she attaches emotions to sex?

Casual sex = you don't care = careless