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Old 05-13-2012, 11:44 AM
 
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What does financial planning have to do with keeping women excited.
I see why your single.
No. You have absolutely no idea why I'm single, and you never will.

 
Old 05-13-2012, 11:51 AM
 
Location: Miami, FL
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As far as American women are concerned the vast majority of the younger women want bad boys and jerks.

When women get older and rely on their looks less, they become more nicer and want the dependable, reliable nice guy in her 30s.

When women get kicked around by the bad boys and have 3 children with the bad boy then that's when they want the nice guy that they ignored when they were younger.
 
Old 05-13-2012, 11:52 AM
 
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What does financial planning have to do with keeping women excited.
I see why your single.
A simple google of male job loss and divorce can be very enlightening.
 
Old 05-13-2012, 12:04 PM
 
Location: Reno, NV
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I've found that many women want good men, not "bad boys" or "nice guys." Those who do want either the bad boys or nice guys aren't ready for a deep relationship anyway, IMO.
 
Old 05-13-2012, 12:13 PM
 
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"nice guys" get those girls when they've been used and abused(possibly multiple kids) by the "bad boy" and close to past their prime.

If that's not an example of finishing last I don't know what is
 
Old 05-13-2012, 12:16 PM
 
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To be fair tho, most nice guys aren't nice, they're frauds. They only act " nice" because they believe that's what women want. And in theory, it seems like a great idea but It will NEVER work.

Dont be fooled, The "nice guys" want to use these women for sex JUST like the bad boys, they just get no action.
 
Old 05-13-2012, 12:17 PM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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I've found that many women want good men, not "bad boys" or "nice guys." Those who do want either the bad boys or nice guys aren't ready for a deep relationship anyway, IMO.
Wow! Someone who gets it! Amazing!

My husband is a good men. So are my exes. And no - I wasn't used, abused, and impregnated by some bad guy before I married my husband.
 
Old 05-13-2012, 12:22 PM
 
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Wow! Someone who gets it! Amazing!

My husband is a good men. So are my exes. And no - I wasn't used, abused, and impregnated by some bad guy before I married my husband.
Not really, "good men" is still yet ANOTHER label. You might think your husband is a "good men," and I might find him Insatiably boring. My wife might think I'm a "good men" and you might think I'm a narcissistic jerk.

People are people and will never easily fit into object containers. Women and men both like what they like, and it varies in billions of ways. And this obsession to try and understand it is truly bizarre.
 
Old 05-13-2012, 12:34 PM
 
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A simple google of male job loss and divorce can be very enlightening.

One of my friend who works at a fast food restuarant gets women of all ages, colors and nationalities....and there all attractive.
 
Old 05-13-2012, 12:34 PM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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Not really, "good men" is still yet ANOTHER label. You might think your husband is a "good men," and I might find him Insatiably boring. My wife might think I'm a "good men" and you might think I'm a narcissistic jerk.

People are people and will never easily fit into object containers. Women and men both like what they like, and it varies in billions of ways. And this obsession to try and understand it is truly bizarre.
Well, that's true, too. But I think some men tend to misunderstand the whole "bad boy" thing. Most women who are interested in a healthy, happy relationship want a "good" man. And while what that is may vary from person to person - I think it's important for these misguided men to understand that a woman wanting a "bad boy" might want someone with a particular persona but still wants that bad boy to be a good man and treat her well.
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