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Old 05-13-2012, 04:52 PM
 
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Default What does this mean when a guy says this?

When the guy you are seeing says you are not bf/gf but you are only dating/seeing each other and not other people.

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Old 05-13-2012, 04:54 PM
 
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When the guy you are seeing says you are not bf/gf but you are only dating/seeing each other?
It means he's just not that into you. Go check out the dvd.
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Old 05-13-2012, 04:56 PM
 
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He's just enjoying your company until someone better comes along.
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Old 05-13-2012, 04:59 PM
 
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It means you're not exclusive yet. Ask him if that's in the cards, or if this is just a casual thing. And btw, have you had sex with him? That may have been your main mistake.
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Old 05-13-2012, 05:03 PM
 
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It means you're not exclusive yet. Ask him if that's in the cards, or if this is just a casual thing. And btw, have you had sex with him? That may have been your main mistake.
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Old 05-13-2012, 05:08 PM
 
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Just to clarify, the guy says you are only seeing each other and not other people but not bf and gf.
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Old 05-13-2012, 05:09 PM
 
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He's just enjoying your company until someone better comes along.
^^^^

It means it's time for you to move on, unless you don't mind being used.
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Old 05-13-2012, 05:12 PM
 
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Just to clarify, the guy says you are only seeing each other and not other people but not bf and gf.
It means you're still in the process of getting to know each other. You still haven't clarified whether this "seeing each other" has gotten physical or not. If it has, it means your FWB.

Have you been sort of clingy, or introducing him as your bf, or otherwise showing signs of wanting to be exclusive and "officially" bf/gf? Then it means he's telling you to back off. If you guys aren't on the same page, maybe it's time to face the fact this isn't working for you, and to start looking elsewhere. And since he says you're not bf/gf, it means you can continue seeing him while you look elsewhere, if you want.
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Old 05-13-2012, 05:17 PM
 
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When the guy you are seeing says you are not bf/gf but you are only dating/seeing each other and not other people.


This is an interesting question. I've never heard of a guy saying that, so I don't know what he means. I didn't watch the movie, either, so I'm curious, now.
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Old 05-13-2012, 06:12 PM
 
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If a guy truly wants to be with you, he will make it known to you and will not be afraid to call you his girlfriend. He's not ready to commit, so neither should you. Date around - I'm not advocating sleeping around - and give yourself the chance to find someone who truly wants to be with you!
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