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The responses from women on this thread are a large part a reason that many bi men are 'on the DL' and don't admit it. I personally know that bi men are far more prevalent than they seem.
Like I said, male sexuality is perceived differently, and additionally, the bulk of scientific studies have shown that men who identify as bisexual are more sexually aroused by gay pornography than heterosexual pornography, indicating that most men who identify as bisexual are more aroused by men than women.
How about some numbers?
How many (what percent) of males in "monogamous" relationships with a woman "double dip" and do guys?
How many (what percent) of females in "monogamous" relationships with a man "double dip" and do women?
Any stats? Numbers don't lie. This might be interesting.
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I'm a lesbian and I can't tell you how many self-identified straight women have confessed to me that they have lesbian fantasies they want to act out, and often, many have already tried.
Also, many gay men have told me the same thing, that they'll often have curious 'straight' men--in relationships with women--who come looking for sex.
I personally think sexual orientation is a fluid concept and that very few individuals are exclusively heterosexual or homosexual. Conversely, I think everyone needs I lighten up and stop feeling bound by outdated, anachronous concepts of sexuality.
If you found out your straight partner had had gay sexual experiences, how would you feel?
I don't think that generalizations about sexuality based on female experience can be broadly applied to males. Men and women are very different animals.
I'm a lesbian and I can't tell you how many self-identified straight women have confessed to me that they have lesbian fantasies they want to act out, and often, many have already tried.
Also, many gay men have told me the same thing, that they'll often have curious 'straight' men--in relationships with women--who come looking for sex.
I personally think sexual orientation is a fluid concept and that very few individuals are exclusively heterosexual or homosexual. Conversely, I think everyone needs I lighten up and stop feeling bound by outdated, anachronous concepts of sexuality.
If you found out your straight partner had had gay sexual experiences, how would you feel?
"My mama always said life was like a box of chocolates. You never know what you're gonna get."
The responses from women on this thread are a large part a reason that many bi men are 'on the DL' and don't admit it. I personally know that bi men are far more prevalent than they seem.
I agree... its bi-phobia and/or homophobia. Your bi partner is no more likely to cheat on you than your straight partner. If you can't handle a man that likes other men and you are a straight woman that is also into men, what exactly does that mean about your own sexual preferences?
It would bother me enough that I may end the relationship.
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