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I don't know, it gets lonely when he is gone so much. It would be nice to have someone in town to do something with.
You know you're playing with fire; either you have morals or you don't.
I've seen this scene play out so many times it's ridiculous...wife at home, bored while the husband is earning money, making a a good life for them. She cheats, finds out the dude she cheated with only wanted casual sex- tries to repair the marriage, but it's too late. You're going to be the one who loses all the way around here, if you meetup w/ this guy.
Recently I have been in contact with a former boyfriend, we dated in junior high and again in our 20's, we are now in our 40's.
I am married, he is not, I'm thinking of meeting for drinks, no harm there?
Sure if you are ok with your husband meeting his previous booty call over drinks
Recently I have been in contact with a former boyfriend, we dated in junior high and again in our 20's, we are now in our 40's.
I am married, he is not, I'm thinking of meeting for drinks, no harm there?
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Originally Posted by lovesMountains
So you aspire to be a person of no integrity or loyalty?
Gee, you set the bar pretty low for yourself
I guess this doesn't qualify as one of those examples of indiscretion that fall under the category of 'mistakes we make just because we're human'.
Recently I have been in contact with a former boyfriend, we dated in junior high and again in our 20's, we are now in our 40's.
I am married, he is not, I'm thinking of meeting for drinks, no harm there?
No harm if you bring your husband he brings a date.
Scratch that. I think no contact is better. You never know where this might lead.
It's amazing what people can rationalize. My husband is away and I'm lonely, so somehow cheating is okay. Lying and sneaking around behind someone's back is never okay no matter what you want to tell yourself. If you are so unhappy and lonely that you need to cheat, then get out of your marriage first.
Do you like spending your husbands hard earned money? Because that will disappear if you get caught....
Go ahead and do it, if you want to be an idiot, lol.
OP:
Get out an volunteer somewhere. Tutor some kids. Feed the homeless. Work for the Red Cross. You'll get outside of yourself and your thoughts, feel better about yourself, and relieve some of your loneliness.
Trust me on this. I had what, looking back, was an emotional affair, with an old flame. We never got physical but the relationship got intense and his wife (smartly) threatened to divorce him when she found out (he had been hiding it) if he didn't cut it off. My husband knew we were emailing but didn't tell me until later how much it upset him. There was no sex, no I love yous or anything but I felt so guilty after. It was very, very wrong to take certain feelings outside of my marriage to this other guy. My husband didn't deserve that. The guy tried to contact me again and I have ignored him for about 4 years now.
I'm thinking this over, hubby will be gone for 2 more weeks, he has no cell signal and there is no phone, that makes it harder. He works in the oil fields and it makes for a very long 3 weeks with a very short 1 week.
This reminds me of the crap that servicemen have to deal with. Those guys are out risking their lives for us, and some wives get "lonely" and have to go out with other men.
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