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05-17-2012, 09:12 PM
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Location: Minneeeesoootah
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Would I, could I, should I?
Recently I have been in contact with a former boyfriend, we dated in junior high and again in our 20's, we are now in our 40's.
I am married, he is not, I'm thinking of meeting for drinks, no harm there?
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05-17-2012, 09:18 PM
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Location: Up above the world so high!
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Originally Posted by asitshouldbe
Recently I have been in contact with a former boyfriend, we dated in junior high and again in our 20's, we are now in our 40's.
I am married, he is not, my husband works out of town quite a bit. I'm thinking of meeting for drinks, we have always been very easy going around each other and I could see us being very comfortable even after 20 years apart. I'll get right to the point, I'm thinking of hitting it, yes I said it, hooking up for whatever reason. I need it and that's just the way it is. He wouldn't tell and my husband would never know, even though it's cheating it would feel completely comfortable to me.
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So you aspire to be a person of no integrity or loyalty?
Gee, you set the bar pretty low for yourself  |
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05-17-2012, 09:18 PM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by asitshouldbe
Recently I have been in contact with a former boyfriend, we dated in junior high and again in our 20's, we are now in our 40's.
I am married, he is not, I'm thinking of meeting for drinks, no harm there?
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Ask your husband what he thinks. |
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05-17-2012, 09:20 PM
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Location: San Antonio/Houston
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Originally Posted by asitshouldbe
Recently I have been in contact with a former boyfriend, we dated in junior high and again in our 20's, we are now in our 40's.
I am married, he is not, I'm thinking of meeting for drinks.
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Why?? |
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05-17-2012, 09:22 PM
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Location: Minneeeesoootah
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Originally Posted by elnina
Why??
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Why not? My husband has a job where he is gone 3 weeks a month. That is hard on a marriage. |
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05-17-2012, 09:24 PM
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Originally Posted by asitshouldbe
Why not? My husband has a job where he is gone 3 weeks a month. That is hard on a marriage.
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And how would he feel if he knew you were meeting an old flame for drinks?
How would you feel if your husband met one of his old flames for drinks? |
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05-17-2012, 09:25 PM
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Location: San Antonio/Houston
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Originally Posted by asitshouldbe
Why not? My husband has a job where he is gone 3 weeks a month. That is hard on a marriage.
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Originally Posted by lovesMountains
So you aspire to be a person of no integrity or loyalty?
Gee, you set the bar pretty low for yourself |
^^^ I agree with you, lovesMountains. |
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05-17-2012, 09:26 PM
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Location: Baltimore, MD
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Originally Posted by asitshouldbe
Why not? My husband has a job where he is gone 3 weeks a month. That is hard on a marriage.
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Sounds like you need to get out of your marriage... |
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05-17-2012, 09:27 PM
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Location: Minneeeesoootah
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Originally Posted by Yzette
And how would he feel if he knew you were meeting an old flame for drinks?
How would you feel if your husband met one of his old flames for drinks?
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I don't know, it gets lonely when he is gone so much. It would be nice to have someone in town to do something with. |
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05-17-2012, 09:28 PM
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Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Originally Posted by asitshouldbe
Why not? My husband has a job where he is gone 3 weeks a month. That is hard on a marriage.
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Sounds like you have made up your mind.
Traveling is not an excuse for having an affair.
You know the answer to your own question. If it were harmless, you wouldn't be on this forum asking us. |
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