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love will not overcome the recurring thought of your wife taking another man's meat stick in her mouth, lying to your face and sneaking around tasting another man's johnson.
bunch of hallmark card crap. plenty of fish in the sea. don't settle for disloyal disrespectful garbage.
You don't know if someone's genuinely remorseful or not. If you feel you can trust a person on their remorse statements that has already lied to you and covered up an affair to boot, better you then me.
The way its being put out there djuna by some of you is that if you're not open to taking a cheater back, then 'shame on you' -- no. shame on the cheater.
Having sex with another person doesn't make you the devil.
^but the lying, leading on, betrayal, and turning your back on someone who hasnt shat on your life makes you a scumbag.
anybody with an ounce of self respect should move on. you wouldn't do business with a mechanic who charged you 2,500 for a repair that cost 12$... so why would you 'forgive' someone who raped your soul with their betrayal. lol people are wimps, if anything, overwhelming revenge would be my response to getting cheated on. i hope i never get cheated on or find out about it.. i will not be responsible for my actions
There are people who cheat because they can. They don't deserve squat. And there are times when cheating is the result of a real problem in the relationship. I don't believe all cases are the same and I don't believe in "once a cheater, always a cheater". Heck, I don't even think it is always wrong. As much as it takes two people to make a relationship work, sometimes, two people can also contribute to infidelity.
^but the lying, leading on, betrayal, and turning your back on someone who hasnt shat on your life makes you a scumbag.
anybody with an ounce of self respect should move on. you wouldn't do business with a mechanic who charged you 2,500 for a repair that cost 12$... so why would you 'forgive' someone who raped your soul with their betrayal. lol people are wimps, if anything, overwhelming revenge would be my response to getting cheated on. i hope i never get cheated on or find out about it.. i will not be responsible for my actions
Why, then, should they be held responsible for theirs? Revenge is as much of a choice as cheating. You're either sh*tty or you're not.
i would see revenge as a reaction to being wronged. like, if a man punches me in the jaw i will respond by hitting him several times in the face and rib area.
cheating in most cases is just people being horny disloyal scumbags. a loyal man or woman will have done nothing to deserve it a lot of the time and those despicable actions deserved to be punished
^but the lying, leading on, betrayal, and turning your back on someone who hasnt shat on your life makes you a scumbag.
anybody with an ounce of self respect should move on. you wouldn't do business with a mechanic who charged you 2,500 for a repair that cost 12$... so why would you 'forgive' someone who raped your soul with their betrayal. lol people are wimps, if anything, overwhelming revenge would be my response to getting cheated on. i hope i never get cheated on or find out about it.. i will not be responsible for my actions
While getting cheated on is horrible, what you're suggesting here is uncivilized. Is that what you are, uncivilized?
i would see revenge as a reaction to being wronged. like, if a man punches me in the jaw i will respond by hitting him several times in the face and rib area.
cheating in most cases is just people being horny disloyal scumbags. a loyal man or woman will have done nothing to deserve it a lot of the time and those despicable actions deserved to be punished
You really can only speak to your own experience, not for "most" cases.
Being physically assaulted is hardly the same as having your feelings hurt.
Anger is a reaction. Revenge is a conscious decision to do harm. You are responsible for those actions. The devil didn't make you do it.
Don't get me wrong. I see the appeal. But that as far as it goes. Even cheating doesn't require as much energy and effort as, say, vandalizing property, making false claims, cutting someone's penis off.
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