Do cheaters ever deserved second chances?

[Doll Eyes]

Originally Posted by Djuna

Having sex with another person doesn't make you the devil.

I never said it did. You said something about 'hanging cheaters' or whatever it was. What I said was if I had enough self control for myself and ability to not to lie -- I don't see how this is considered such a huge feat for the next person to accomplish. Also, maybe having sex with someone else outside the relationship, behind your back and lying about it, isn't a big deal to you, but it would be to me and many others.

[Doll Eyes]

Originally Posted by expect

^but the lying, leading on, betrayal, and turning your back on someone who hasnt shat on your life makes you a scumbag.
anybody with an ounce of self respect should move on. you wouldn't do business with a mechanic who charged you 2,500 for a repair that cost 12$... so why would you 'forgive' someone who raped your soul with their betrayal. lol people are wimps, if anything, overwhelming revenge would be my response to getting cheated on. i hope i never get cheated on or find out about it.. i will not be responsible for my actions

LOL. Your words are a bit stronger then mine, but I agree with you. But well you know, some people will put up with anything. People that are unwilling to draw the line somewhere, get it drawn for them.

[moonwatcher]

Ans to OP... NO. tyvm...