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I have never been humiliated before. It's some girl I haven't seen since the 2005 graduation. Anyways she is so stuck on the past that she threw a drink in my dress in front of everyone (my bf was there too). I didn't even think she would be on the party but apparently she's friends with certain people too.
I was just trying to talk to her normally and said ''Hey how's it been Marcie'' and immediately she goes on ''Hi, no wait I know who you are''. Ok for several seconds I forgot but then play along and said ''What are you talking about''? It seems that she was too focused with an apology but I wouldn't give it because I just think it's pathetic when you are begging for one and being stuck on ages ago. When I didn't give it to her, that's when she threw the drink and well I end up throwing juice at her too. A fight was about to break but someone separated us.
It was something along this line (a couple moments before the fight):
Her: So you have no regrets at all?
Me: I don't know. I think one needs to get stop focusing on the past and live in the present.
Her: But do you remembered me?
Me: (By this moment I knew clearly what she meant but play along) Well yes sort of but you know it's been a long time, I'm forgetful at times (giggles as I was trying to joke with her and be as polite as possible)
Then that's when she threw the drink and fight started.
She started it and well I wasn't going to let myself be treated that way. Besides we're already 25 years old. Shouldn't she get over it already?
I'm a strong believer of living in the present and if I were to have wronged her or anyone long ages ago (as long as it's nothing too serious such as stealing a girl's bf which I never did), then that's past already.
Nothing just some practical jokes and some stunts (well I was kind of a popular cheerleader then too). It's not like I physically attack her or something. One of my stunts was simply having others to get her out of the gym (I believe this was both in the 9th, 10th and 12th grade peprally but it was just a joke) and locking the door but then she was let back in. You know kid stuff. My friends and I didn't see it as harmful.
But she seems to have blown it out of proportion and treated me like I'm the worst of worst on the party.
Nothing just some practical jokes and some stunts (well I was kind of a popular cheerleader then too). It's not like I physically attack her or something. One of my stunts was simply having others to get her out of the gym (I believe this was both in the 9th, 10th and 12th grade peprally but it was just a joke) and locking the door but then she was let back in. You know kid stuff. My friends and I didn't see it as harmful.
But she seems to have blown it out of proportion and treated me like I'm the worst of worst on the party.
Ohhhh, so you were a bully? And so you figured that she ought to just "get over it?" because nothing happened to you and she's still trying to heal? You deserved to have your ass whooped. And just because it didn't hurt you (because you were on the receiving end) if you knew what you did to her was hurtful (as I feel you should've) then you should've known better. Shame on you! And I hope no one here gives you validation. What you said to her that night for nothing more than to irk her.
Oh! And since you've never been humiliated in your life, and that night you were, and you're posting on here you're obviously still focused on it just as she was so maybe now you'd have a bit more compassion when you meet another person and they're a little stuck in their past painful experiences. *smh*
Ohhhh, so you were a bully? And so you figured that she ought to just "get over it?" because nothing happened to you and she's still trying to heal? You deserved to have your ass whooped. And just because it didn't hurt you (because you were on the receiving end) if you knew what you did to her was hurtful (as I feel you should've) then you should've known better. Shame on you! And I hope no one here gives you validation. What you said to her that night for nothing more than to irk her.
No a mean bully is someone that beats up a person for no reason. I never beat her up but I was really just joking around.
Can't anyone take a joke!!!
Yes I knew what she was referring to, which was a shock to me what she was saying. Honestly, when I'm joking around I always try to make my stunts a way that isn't harmful nor causes accidents.
No a mean bully is someone that beats up a person for no reason. I never beat her up but I was really just joking around.
Can't anyone take a joke!!!
Mhm, and did she find it funny? Obviously not because she threw a drink in your face. Empathy? compassion? Walk in her shoes for a while. 3 yrs of being teased and picked on ain't funny.
Yes I knew what she was referring to, which was a shock to me what she was saying. Honestly, when I'm joking around I always try to make my stunts a way that isn't harmful nor causes accidents.
Well, that's true, how could humiliating someone in front of the entire school be harmful? Good lookin' out there for the next person!
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Good lookin' out there for the next person!
