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And I think that's selfish. Not being able to handle some side effects for your man
Some can be life threatening for some people. Why can't you handle the side effects of a condom? I feel couples should work out an option that is equitable for both.
Some can be life threatening for some people. Why can't you handle the side effects of a condom? I feel couples should work out an option that is equitable for both.
THIS! Why can't guys deal with a condom on behalf of their women? There ARE no side effects with the condom, whereas there are multiple risks with oral contraception.
Some can be life threatening for some people. Why can't you handle the side effects of a condom? I feel couples should work out an option that is equitable for both.
Seriously. What are the possible side effects of a condom? Some loss of sensation. What are the possible side effects of hormonal birth control? Headaches, dizziness, breast tenderness, nausea, decreased libido, mood swings, and blood clots. The last one, btw, can be lethal. If I had those side effects and 'my man' wanted me to continue on with it to make things easier for him, I'd be dumping the jerk.
THIS! Why can't guys deal with a condom on behalf of their women? There ARE no side effects with the condom, whereas there are multiple risks with oral contraception.
Some one found my comment interesting in regards to chemically bonding through the exchange of body fluids......."Flesh of my flesh< bone of my bone-forsaking all others".............You absorb who and what the woman is..as does the she...married couples who have been together for years grow close- anyway that's my theory...It's kind of a healing thing....Condoms as I mentioned were used primarily as a form of birth control.....I was lucky enough to have been in a era where sex did not equate disease and death.
It's quite sad that the act that creates life is now an act that equates with death- which is the opposite of sex.
Woman get a type of satisfaction knowing that the male has made a direct deposit...I remember my wife would sit on the toilet and delight in the amount of sperm that would drip out....Too much information? Sorry- Now having sex with a lactating woman....well that's called going full circle....all I know is that sex and youth and love are a human blessing that few appreciate until they are older..and by then...Woman view you like a carton of milk with an expiry date stamped on your forehead-------------
It's quite depressing being an older man and fairly healthy- we are still 25 on the inside- but woman only see a guy that is past his prime...what ever that is- I swear that older men who have a good sex life- extend their life by decades..."It is not good for a man to be alone"- I believe God said that regarding Adam.....and he was right..........................
I have used them during my marriage, for birth control, only during the extremly fertile times of the month, when you couldn't wait for a better time, otherwise, you pretty much know when it's safe.
Some people have medical conditions that preclude the use of hormonal birth control. my younger sister is one...use of hormonal bc led to adenomas on her liver, so she is not to use any hormonal BC since this was discovered by accident during a gallbladder removal. She and her fiance aren't planning on having children yet, so I assume they use condoms...not my biz, haven't asked, but i do know that her options are limited. Hormonal BC isn't right for everyone.
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