Is "mooning someone" ok? (girlfriend, girls, cheated, hubby)

[robertpolyglot]

If you're a teenager in Southern California, it's ok.

In fact, there's an annual ritual where a certain passenger train is mooned as it's near the beach. How can you NOT think that's funny?

[darrensmooth]

Originally Posted by Torn2pieces

I'm sure there's more to the Mooning incident - that's got him calling her loose and a ho... And this is why their breaking up? I highly doubt it...

yes...we don't have the whole story

[bellakin123]

Originally Posted by lovesMountains

This is like when people fight over who left the cap off the toothpaste - the fight is never really about the damn tube of toothpaste.

You guys have problems in your marriage.

Those problems have made you less attractive to him right now.

So any behavior he finds unacceptable that you find okay is going to just be more evidence for him as to why he shouldn't be with you.

Make an appt to see a marriage counselor right away.

If you two don't start working on whatever the real problem is ASAP, you will not be able to save this marriage.

Oh, and the mooning? Typical high school prank. Any adult participating in doing that in public to strangers has no class, decorum or common sense.

Wanted to rep you but I gotta spread the love lol

I couldn't agree more. As soon as I read it, I said to myself, "This is much deeper than just "mooning".

[ShellNic]

I think it's a little over the top to say that someone (an adult) who moons someone else has no class or common sense. But I'm not saying it's all that funny either. I think the OP was just laughing at a movie/show, then in the moment of laughter said, sure, that might be fun in these special circumstances and then the husband goes off on a tangent. SO...I do think the problem lies somewhere else but I don't think we should focus on the moon part...it's not a big deal. And if I was riding a train in So Cal and saw a bunch of beach mooners mooning the train, I'd likely laugh... a lot... it's amusing.

[bellakin123]

[quote=wishing1;24445028]I feel like there are problems too but I can't figure out why...

Yes the mooning is child like but as we age are we never to have fun again.[/quote]

I'm sorry, but if you can't find other ways to have fun then I don't know what to tell you. Maybe your husband doesn't like the idea of a woman, especially his wife, having no problem to stick her bare bottom out the window to someone. What if you "moon" someone from law enforcement in an unmarked car? What if you moon someone elderly? What if there's kids in that car but you didn't see them? They may not see your face but people may follow you or write down the license plate. It's "funny" when it's an 11 year old sitting in the backseat during a really long road trip. A grown woman with children? Not so much.

[MikefromNY]

Originally Posted by bellakin123

What if you "moon" someone from law enforcement in an unmarked car?

When my sister was in Junior High a kid on her school bus made this mistake. They pulled the bus over and asked him if there was a problem with his pants!

[JeepGirl118]

Originally Posted by wishing1

Yes mooning is low class and all that good stuff. But does it make me a ho or loose.

No, Ma'am, it does not. There is a whole 'nother set of guidelines to meet the "ho" and "loose" category.

I think that there are just some things in his head that he is not sharing w/ you and is using whatever incidents as a scapegoat.

[bellakin123]

Originally Posted by MikefromNY

When my sister was in Junior High a kid on her school bus made this mistake. They pulled the bus over and asked him if there was a problem with his pants!

Hopefully the cop was nice enough to let it go otherwise I can't imagine having to explain that to the kid's parents!

[wishing1]

Originally Posted by ShellNic

I think it's a little over the top to say that someone (an adult) who moons someone else has no class or common sense. But I'm not saying it's all that funny either. I think the OP was just laughing at a movie/show, then in the moment of laughter said, sure, that might be fun in these special circumstances and then the husband goes off on a tangent. SO...I do think the problem lies somewhere else but I don't think we should focus on the moon part...it's not a big deal. And if I was riding a train in So Cal and saw a bunch of beach mooners mooning the train, I'd likely laugh... a lot... it's amusing.

You pretty much got how the it went... & how I feel...

Now if only I knew what the "real problem" is.

[wishing1]

[quote=bellakin123;24445966]

Originally Posted by wishing1

I feel like there are problems too but I can't figure out why...

Yes the mooning is child like but as we age are we never to have fun again.[/quote]

I'm sorry, but if you can't find other ways to have fun then I don't know what to tell you. Maybe your husband doesn't like the idea of a woman, especially his wife, having no problem to stick her bare bottom out the window to someone. What if you "moon" someone from law enforcement in an unmarked car? What if you moon someone elderly? What if there's kids in that car but you didn't see them? They may not see your face but people may follow you or write down the license plate. It's "funny" when it's an 11 year old sitting in the backseat during a really long road trip. A grown woman with children? Not so much.

That's true...And I would feel bad if it went like that.