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Old 05-27-2012, 07:56 PM
 
Location: The western periphery of Terra Australis
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Both in real life and online...which is strange, because I never considered myself a flirtatious person? Maybe it's just a need to come out of my shell, and express these romantic feelings I've never truly shared with anybody in a serious way? Aside from a silly internet 'romance' with a, shall we say, larger girl who seemed to like me (or at least pretended to, I think it was at least genuine in a casual way). To be honest I wasn't interested in her either, but kept up the charade for fun. Just saying naughty things, dropping hints, relating things to her/dropping suggestive comments (nothing rude or inappropriate, it's all kind of innocent).

Of course it might go too far/some might get the wrong idea...Do you ever get this urge? Is it wrong/flippant of me to be like this? Lol.
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Old 05-27-2012, 07:59 PM
 
Location: Sugarland
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Flirting can be fun just for the sake of flirting, but I think it's more fun if you're actually attracted to the person.
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Old 05-27-2012, 08:01 PM
 
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"I'm in love with a woman that doesn't even appeal to me" - Bob Dylan, Things Have Changed
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Old 05-27-2012, 08:01 PM
 
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Flirting can be fun just for the sake of flirting, but I think it's more fun if you're actually attracted to the person.
Oh of course...I dunno, on one level I'm attracted to most friendly, attractive members of the opposite sex, but seldom is the attraction strong enough to make me really go out of my way to pursue it.
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Old 05-27-2012, 08:03 PM
 
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"I'm in love with a woman that doesn't even appeal to me" - Bob Dylan, Things Have Changed
Is it typical for someone with little experience to like/have a crush on somebody at the drop of a hat? Even if I just meet someone, I can get that fuzzy feeling within a few minutes of talking to them.
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Old 05-27-2012, 08:08 PM
 
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Is it typical for someone with little experience to like/have a crush on somebody at the drop of a hat? Even if I just meet someone, I can get that fuzzy feeling within a few minutes of talking to them.
Oh absolutely it is.
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Old 05-27-2012, 08:57 PM
 
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Oh absolutely it is.
Yeah it's kind of embarrassing, actually.
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Old 05-27-2012, 09:07 PM
 
Location: USA
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Internet flirting is fun and harmless, as long as both know it's just flirting.

So you go for it you handsome little devil
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Old 05-27-2012, 09:09 PM
 
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Internet flirting is fun and harmless, as long as both know it's just flirting.

So you go for it you handsome little devil
Women have told me I can be charming. It's just I seldom go out because of my condition.
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Old 05-27-2012, 10:09 PM
 
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I have a sudden urge to flirt with women I'm not even interested in


Of course it might go too far/some might get the wrong idea...

Is it wrong/flippant of me to be like this? Lol.
It's not wrong but you might not like the way it ends. Even being polite to women you have no interest in has risks for average and below average men.

It isn't just that the women that you interacted with who will get the wrong idea. Most other women who know her will too and they tend to "circle the wagons" at these times.

Of course, this never applies to the type of man that women crave. Women expect them to be very selective and get downright nasty when they don't get their way. Women KNOW that they have to earn their attention and respect is something that they can only hope for and in small doses!
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