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Old 05-28-2012, 07:07 PM
 
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So ive been talkin to this dude and recently ive notcied he has became distant from me...Although he acts like he stills like me when we text he doesnt call or answer like he was doing in the beggining, or trying to see me as much like before...He sent me a message online saying "baby some one got my phone send me ur number" so i sent it!!!.I had a feeling he was lying so i had my friend call and no one answered...the phone went to voice mail...So i called later that day from my house number and no one answer...Someone called right back and when i said hello they was quiet then just hung up...Then they called back a second time and It was a dude voice...I said who is this and he said a different name but i couldnt tell if it sounded like the guy ive been talkin to voice or not..So they called back a 3rd time and i just heard music playin in the background and they hung up..I am suspicious because if someone has his phone how was they able to call back? he has a code/lock on his phone which means u can call out until u put the code it. Also if someone has his phone y is his phone still on? most ppl get their phones turned off. I was texting him from my phone and kept gettin no response, so I texted him from a different number and he replied back but he didnt kno it was meI dont kno if this guy is playin a big game on me or what...when i went to his page and I noticed he posted a status saying "someone took his phone, new hat, and 3 belts"..so finally today he calls me but i didnt answer then he sends a text sayin "i just read all the **** u wrote, smfh lost for words, i called cause its too much to type, i just got my phone back" so i called him back and h didnt answer and i texted back and he didnt respond? wat do you think??
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Old 05-28-2012, 07:10 PM
 
Location: NYC
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Honey come on. It isn't normal to play Phone Detective games with a love interest. Move on.
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Old 05-28-2012, 07:16 PM
 
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ahhh phone/text drama. been there done that. are you like teenagers? coz if you two are not. ......
im 24 he 23
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Old 05-28-2012, 07:30 PM
 
Location: Bronx, New York
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Talking to him? What does that mean? If he wanted to talk to you he would. This is not rocket science. Don't make the typical female mistake of over analyzing a cut and dry situation. I'm always losing numbers and can't seem to find the time to call back or text people I'm not that concerned with.
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Old 05-28-2012, 07:31 PM
 
Location: The Great State of Arkansas
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You've got 3 different posts going on with the same info and keep getting the same responses...MOVE ON. It's been going on for 2 weeks, nothing has really changed. Yes, he's playing you. He posted you to FB, then took you down - you can't get him to return calls, you're stalking and he's playing along. He's yanked your chain for TWO WEEKS.

Get over him. Let it go. Find someone else. Quit the crazies.

There's only so many ways to say it's over unless living in drama llama mode is your idea of a good time. Anyone that can mess you up this badly in such a short time is a player - quit playing along...it's some other girl's turn to get messed on.
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Old 05-28-2012, 07:40 PM
 
Location: Australia
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You don';t need the games this early on when seeing someone. Quit the games he's playing and move on.
Its not going to go anywhere, you can take that as the truth now, and quickly let him off and move on to something better.
He seems like he doesnt know where he's going and has no idea what he wants. Don;t let him break your heart in the long run, you do the running now and find someone more trustworthy and reliable. Don't say nobody told you...
Goodluck
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Old 05-28-2012, 08:41 PM
 
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So ive been talkin to this dude and recently ive notcied he has became distant from me...Although he acts like he stills like me when we text he doesnt call or answer like he was doing in the beggining, or trying to see me as much like before...He sent me a message online saying "baby some one got my phone send me ur number" so i sent it!!!.I had a feeling he was lying so i had my friend call and no one answered...the phone went to voice mail...So i called later that day from my house number and no one answer...Someone called right back and when i said hello they was quiet then just hung up...Then they called back a second time and It was a dude voice...I said who is this and he said a different name but i couldnt tell if it sounded like the guy ive been talkin to voice or not..So they called back a 3rd time and i just heard music playin in the background and they hung up..I am suspicious because if someone has his phone how was they able to call back? he has a code/lock on his phone which means u can call out until u put the code it. Also if someone has his phone y is his phone still on? most ppl get their phones turned off. I was texting him from my phone and kept gettin no response, so I texted him from a different number and he replied back but he didnt kno it was meI dont kno if this guy is playin a big game on me or what...when i went to his page and I noticed he posted a status saying "someone took his phone, new hat, and 3 belts"..so finally today he calls me but i didnt answer then he sends a text sayin "i just read all the **** u wrote, smfh lost for words, i called cause its too much to type, i just got my phone back" so i called him back and h didnt answer and i texted back and he didnt respond? wat do you think??
A guy's phone gets stolen and he sends you an email asking you for your number again.

The correct response is to send your number back via email and let him call you, not contact the old number and wonder why you're hearing some random stranger, and definitely not bombard the old number with texts. You were contacting a phone thief at that point.

The guy you were talking to may have called the phone company and had the texts that were sent to his stolen phone to his new phone--and was turned off by the weird, paranoid behavior you exhibited.

Or maybe he just can't understand you. I sure had a hard time making sense of your post.
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Old 05-29-2012, 06:23 AM
 
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How many threads you going to make?

He doesn't WANT TO BE WITH YOU. WHAT DO YOU NOT UNDERSTAND?
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Old 05-29-2012, 06:29 AM
 
Location: In The Thin Air
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Attention, party of one.
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Old 05-29-2012, 06:38 AM
 
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She doesn't like that answer so I am going to give her a new one. I am writing in her own style so she will get it.

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i tyNK u NeeD 2 begin $enDin him MuliplE mesSages each da Awn hEs phonE, email, tWIttUH, fb, mYspaCE, TuMblr, EtC. ALLso, he wants u 2 $hO UhP at hES crIB aFtr daRk. Do nwt bOthuh rIngin da bEll, JuS clImB thrU da WinDO.

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