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Old 05-29-2012, 05:17 AM
 
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Yes it is appalling behaviour on the part of us women. Perhaps we should be punished for our thoughtless aesthetic appeal.

Maybe you could treat us like crap? Call us b****** and wh****? Perhaps you could lie to, sleep with and dump some of our less attractive sisters. Would that even things out?
For some people probably not.
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Old 05-29-2012, 05:18 AM
 
Location: State of Transition
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You nailed it!! I feel that. Sometimes I miss the good ol' days where I used to go out to clubs and parties often, drinking and what not. I even joined the local PUA community last fall to rekindle with it. But yeah sometimes I think it's best if I just stick to my world, because sometimes looking at attractive women aint nothing but teasing. So sometimes I'd just rather stick to my regular ol' life.
This is a little spooky that men are thinking this way.
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Old 05-29-2012, 05:21 AM
 
Location: Northern Wisconsin
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Personally, I've never had that problem. I've known a few women like this. They are usually very boring people, and not enjoyable to be around. I'd much rather have an average looking woman who is fun, interesting, smart, honest and kindhearted. My advice, concentrate on these qualities, and that beautiful wrapping will not matter much anymore.
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Old 05-29-2012, 05:28 AM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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They are usually very boring people, and not enjoyable to be around.
Sounds a WHOLE LOT like sour grapes.

I know lots of attractive women who are great people. You can't toss everyone into the same hole like that.
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Old 05-29-2012, 05:42 AM
 
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I mean is it ever frustrating for you that a woman looks so good that it almost hurts you that you can't have her? I got that feeling earlier today when I was at the first day of training for my new job?
No.

I used to ride the NYC subway every day too, so I'd see literally hundreds of beautiful women every day. None of them stick in my mind for longer than a day.

They're just a face and body with no substance if I haven't talked to them. Not that I can't appreciate beauty, I can. It just won't stick.
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Old 05-29-2012, 05:47 AM
 
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Sounds a WHOLE LOT like sour grapes.

I know lots of attractive women who are great people. You can't toss everyone into the same hole like that.
This is City-Data, of course they can.
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Old 05-29-2012, 07:52 AM
 
Location: Reno, NV
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OP, you have a very well developed case of inadequacy.

Sure, plenty of women aren't going to be interested in me, and that's a real shame, because they don't know what they're missing! LOLOL However, I just prefer to enjoy a beautiful woman like I'd enjoy a beautiful painting or sunset - for its own sake, knowing I can't possess it. I don't avoid museums and sunsets.

Besides, you needn't bother with ALL those women. Just focus on finding ONE that you can love.
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Old 05-29-2012, 08:09 AM
 
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I'm sure we've all faced this at one point or another
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Old 05-29-2012, 08:10 AM
 
Location: Infernuan
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No. Another silly topic.
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Old 05-29-2012, 08:12 AM
 
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Yes it is appalling behaviour on the part of us women. Perhaps we should be punished for our thoughtless aesthetic appeal.

Maybe you could treat us like crap? Call us b****** and wh****? Perhaps you could lie to, sleep with and dump some of our less attractive sisters. Would that even things out?
lol, what you should have said was "do you want us women stop showering, stop shaving our legs and drink beer and belch in public to even things out?
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