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Well it sounds like you need to have her listen to you first. One thing that MIGHT work is to act like you think everything is all your fault and you feel horrible about it and feel like your the worst husband in the world. That way you have her attention and you can express yourself. Or another way you can get her attention is act like your ready to break up because of the way she has been acting. It's sort of a risky move but it works everytime. This I know for a fact will get her attention. When she is all calm, ask her what you are doing wrong to make her like that all the time, because it's 2 sides to every story, and she's a female so i'm sure she will have an entire list of things (half if not most will probably be completely and utterly ridiculous and petty to the highest degree). Listen to her, then tell her how you feel. Make sure she knows that her actions is not making the situation any better at all. After that, you both need to work it out (or meet in the middle) and let eachother know how you feel about one another. Try doing something different and fun also. Try to bring back that 1st stage in the relationship. At the end of the day women just want to feel loved... or money. If the issue is ALWAYS money then you might have bigger problems than I thought. With the money issue, there is about 10 different directions I see this going. You better make sure she's loyal because you don't want some dude in a better current financial situation blinding her with the upscale and successful lifestyle. You will get hurt in the end and you don't need noone that's that easy to leave anyway. But I will tell you one thing, you better get on your sh*t man. Females do not like men who are not about their business. Especially grown women. You may already be serious and trying to grind as hard as you can... I hope so because if you not. Women can see that sh*t and it's a turn off. You may have made mistakes in the past (I have too but I cleaned them up) but you can clean those up. A man with No goals, lack of ambition, no plans, nothing going for himself ect. are the type of men most women do not want.
I believe in one marriage why do you think im here ??? seeking advice !!duh :l
Let me ask you, would you trust. This woman to be an emotionally dependable mother to your children? Would you want to deal with this woman who disrespects you in front of children.
If the answer is no, you may want to consider divorce. I hate divorce but I hate emotionally unavailable mothers with emasculated fathers more.
This is the only girl I have ever had sex with and Im just tired of her non stop mood swings , silent treatments...Honestly since this is the only relationship Ive had sex in I conclude that not sleeping with a women is better for a mans mind. Why do women B**ch the way they do? I need some advice .
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