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Old 06-01-2012, 08:32 AM
 
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There is an acquaintance of mine, who used to date one of my really good guy friends. The two of them had a son together accidentally, when she was 21. The kid has down's syndrome.

She's a bit of a lunatic (to put it nicely), but she is extremely attractive (men flocked to her/still flock to her). However, her attitude is terrible and she also has 3 kids by 2 different men (she's 25) and is a known cheater.

Was engaged to a very attractive successful man (who she had two children with) and she ended up cheating on him and he left her.

Since this breakup she is now dating another successful, attractive man who takes care of her while she is home with the kids.

I am just wondering how people like this still manage to find successful, attractive, good guys with all of these deal breakers. Do looks really excuse everything??
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Old 06-01-2012, 08:39 AM
 
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There is an acquaintance of mine, who used to date one of my really good guy friends. The two of them had a son together accidentally, when she was 21. The kid has down's syndrome.

She's a bit of a lunatic (to put it nicely), but she is extremely attractive (men flocked to her/still flock to her). But her attitude is terrible and she also has 3 kids by 2 different men (she's 25) and is a known cheater.

Was engaged to a very attractive successful man (who she had two children with) and she ended up cheating on him and he left her.

Since this breakup she is now dating another successful, attractive man who takes care of her while she is home with the kids.

I am just wondering how people like this still manage to find successful, attractive, good guys with all of these deal breakers. Do looks really excuse everything??
In this sex-obsessed culture? Yes! There used to be a time when men would try to find a reasonably attractive woman that also had other attractive qualities. Now everyone thinks sex is the most important thing in a relationship. They jump into bed with some crazy girl, get all attached and clouded, then do a stupid thing like marry them. Then when the woman gets even crazier and selfish, they come here all bitter talking about how all women are users and psycho.
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Old 06-01-2012, 08:46 AM
 
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They do excuse A LOT. but not in the long run.
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Old 06-01-2012, 08:46 AM
 
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I think men do excuse deal breakers for really 'hot' women. Personally, I wouldn't excuse or reneg on my deal breakers for an extremely attractive man, that's why they are 'dealbreakers'.
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Old 06-01-2012, 08:49 AM
 
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Not if you have an IQ above that of the average goldfish....

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Old 06-01-2012, 08:51 AM
 
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I definitely don't think looks should excuse everything (or anything, if their personality is that bad), but that's just my opinion... I could be in the minority.
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Old 06-01-2012, 08:51 AM
 
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I bet it's more than her looks. She's probably very talented in the bedroom to get the men to stay. People put up with all kinds of stuff if the sex is good.
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Old 06-01-2012, 08:55 AM
 
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Deal breakers are deal breakers. Looks don't matter at all in the presence of even one deal breaker.
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Old 06-01-2012, 08:57 AM
 
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i wondered a similar thing one time when a trainwreck of a girl i knew was dating this seemingly perfect guy willing to take care of her. then i got to know him and quickly discovered that he was a lunatic as well
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Old 06-01-2012, 08:58 AM
 
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There is an acquaintance of mine, who used to date one of my really good guy friends. The two of them had a son together accidentally, when she was 21. The kid has down's syndrome.
How do you accidently have a son? I have 6 kids and not one time was it accidental. I mean are you saying they accidently had sex and a son was the outcome? I am betting that the sex wasn't accidental. maybe the results were not the outcome that they were looking for but it is not accidental. LOL
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