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Old 06-05-2012, 06:06 PM
 
Location: San Antonio, TX
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She's a wealthy fifty-ish, divorced real estate agent with no children whom I've dated over the last nine months; I'm a fifty-five-ish, busy physician.

I answered her statement, "You don't have needs, just desires. And if you did have needs, I would'nt have the time nor the desire to fulfill them." Without hesitation she responded flatly, "OK".

I uncuddled, got up, got dressed, then while turning toward the bedroom doorI said, "Good bye". Driving home, I saw those moments over in my mind as watching a scene in a movie. Politeness goes a long way...

Thought I'd share.

 
Old 06-05-2012, 06:20 PM
 
Location: Pa
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You basically told her she is sh*t and don't let the door hit you on the way out. Very nice.
 
Old 06-05-2012, 06:30 PM
 
Location: Middle America
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So I'm guessing y'all weren't close...
 
Old 06-05-2012, 06:33 PM
 
Location: Up above the world so high!
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Originally Posted by Danbo1957 View Post
She's a wealthy fifty-ish, divorced real estate agent with no children whom I've dated over the last nine months; I'm a fifty-five-ish, busy physician.

I answered her statement, "You don't have needs, just desires. And if you did have needs, I would'nt have the time nor the desire to fulfill them." Without hesitation she responded flatly, "OK".

I uncuddled, got up, got dressed, then while turning toward the bedroom doorI said, "Good bye". Driving home, I saw those moments over in my mind as watching a scene in a movie. Politeness goes a long way...

Thought I'd share.
Wow, so you took the lazy way out and walked.

She'll be better off without you.
 
Old 06-05-2012, 06:40 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Apparently your so-called restraint is all you're willing to share.

I'd say your ladyfriend hit it right on the nose.
 
Old 06-05-2012, 06:41 PM
 
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Default "Very busy" indeed.

Sorry, chap, but when a grown woman you've been dating for a while tells you that you aren't meeting her needs, it's usually because she has tried every other way she knows how to make you understand that you're not having enough sex; you've been oblivious to her satisfaction and have left her hanging on more than one occasion; or you are either too obtuse or too self-centered to pick up on any gentle guidance or physical cues she gave you in bed that would indicate that she wants you to touch this or do that. Women her age generally don't stammer around like blushing brides, fearful of making their needs known. You were just too stubborn, prideful, or dense to understand.
 
Old 06-05-2012, 06:41 PM
 
Location: New Jersey
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She would have cheated on you anyway and then twisted it around and made it your fault. Good on you for dumping her.
 
Old 06-05-2012, 06:43 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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She would have cheated on you anyway and then twisted it around and made it your fault. Good on you for dumping her.
Let me guess, Ram ... your other response was gonna be, "She's probably a lesbian."
 
Old 06-05-2012, 06:44 PM
 
Location: southern california
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she just kicked a doctor out of bed. if u are in fact a doctor there is a long line outside your door to replace her. of course as a rule doctors dont spend alota time typing on CDF, they do shift work.
 
Old 06-05-2012, 06:46 PM
 
Location: San Antonio, TX
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Huck has it:

She dumped me. She loves the excitement that comes with a "new relationship". Turned out that I was a doctor...
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