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Old 06-06-2012, 01:17 PM
 
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Yeah, this smart phone nonsense is just plain ridiculous nowadays. I have one, but I use it when i need to for the most part. Ladies, get off your damn phone for a minute, the world wont end - I promise

The problem with women is that they don't like being completely alone, and secondly, they don't occupy their time in a way that a man would (i.e, thinking, introspection, self reflection).

So if somehow a woman is forced to do something by herself, she will pull out her phone to have somebody to talk to, or to make it look as if she's busy so strange men will leave her alone.
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Old 06-06-2012, 01:19 PM
 
Location: Infernuan
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So you just figured out going to bars is not the place most women would consider an ideal situation for setting up a serious relationship? Excellent work.
No, I didn't 'just figure it out'. I've known all along and I made a conscious decision long ago to not frequent such establishments. The ****ty attitudes from women here in this thread concerning men and bars/clubs only confirms what I have always known.

Dunno, but with all the negativity I'm getting from women both here and IRL, I believe there isn't ANY 'ideal situation' for setting ANYTHING up with women.
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Old 06-06-2012, 01:19 PM
 
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The problem with women is that they don't like being completely alone, and secondly, they don't occupy their time in a way that a man would (i.e, thinking, introspection, self reflection).

So if somehow a woman is forced to do something by herself, she will pull out her phone to have somebody to talk to, or to make it look as if she's busy so strange men will leave her alone.
I agree very much with the first part of your post but not so much the last sentence. Do you think its unnatural for "strange men" to approach attractive women? Is it something that shouldnt be taking place?
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Old 06-06-2012, 01:21 PM
 
Location: Infernuan
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I agree very much with the first part of your post but not so much the last sentence. Do you think its unnatural for "strange men" to approach attractive women? Is it something that shouldnt be taking place?
I think men should just quit approaching women altogether. If women want men then they should do the work.
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Old 06-06-2012, 01:23 PM
 
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Judging from this population of young men and what they have to offer/demands they make, I for one see exactly why some of those kind of girls choose to grind on, kiss, hug other women. *shrugs* Can't say I blame them at all.
I see your point, but my observation is that women do it to get quick attention and HUGE ego boost, not because they can't find a decent guy.
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Old 06-06-2012, 01:24 PM
 
Location: New Jersey
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No, I didn't 'just figure it out'. I've known all along and I made a conscious decision long ago to not frequent such establishments. The ****ty attitudes from women here in this thread concerning men and bars/clubs only confirms what I have always known.

Dunno, but with all the negativity I'm getting from women both here and IRL, I believe there isn't ANY 'ideal situation' for setting ANYTHING up with women.

LMAO @ the sh*tty attitude of women who choose to go out to a public place just for the sake of enjoyment or socializing. I'm sorry (no I'm not) some women's lives don't revolve around catering to males and their needs/wants. I agree, stay outta the bar less disappointment for you that way.

Maybe just maybe, if you stopped getting into a huff over your expectations of what women should be doing based on what you want to happen, you would find women who were more open and willing outside of the bars. This isn't going to happen though b/c I beleive it's built into the male psyche, to throw temper tantrums when they don't get what they want from the opposite sex.
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Old 06-06-2012, 01:25 PM
 
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This is why I don't go to clubs in America. You think I'm going to stand around like a fool (after I paid to get in VS the girls who go in FREE!) and and let a bunch of girls sexually tease me all night?
Yes. Men do this all the time.
Strip clubs.
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Old 06-06-2012, 01:25 PM
 
Location: New Jersey
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I see your point, but my observation is that women do it to get quick attention and HUGE ego boost, not because they can't find a decent guy.

Well those are the women in my group dressed like the ones in your pics, that got majority of attention from men. So what they're doing must be working for you all.
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Old 06-06-2012, 01:27 PM
 
Location: Houston, Tx
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Judging from this population of young men and what they have to offer/demands they make, I for one see exactly why some of those kind of girls choose to grind on, kiss, hug other women. *shrugs* Can't say I blame them at all.
Why don't you be honest, and just admit you're a lesbian.
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Old 06-06-2012, 01:29 PM
 
Location: New Jersey
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Why don't you be honest, and just admit you're a lesbian.

LOL. I'm not though, I'm bisexual. I like men physically, just not their attitudes about women, so I choose not to bother with them at all. I guess they could say the same about me..... Someone said in another thread, that when men don't like what they hear from a woman that's usually the 2nd response: "She's a lesbian," I understand it's an ego thing for you all, feel free to tell yourself that.
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