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wait.. ur acting like 3 weeks is a ton of time being single, when really its not at all, especially after a 4 year relationship.. basically u want a one night stand or fling with this guy and want to know if its ok
Why even use the word "friend" - associate might have been more accurate- Go for it- but if it is case of picking the low hanging fruit because you are to lazy to hunt further afield that might show a lack of class...BUT as I said if he is just someone who was an associate...I can sort of see it---IF he was actually a friend in a brotherly way to your ex..I in the position of your ex would really resent both of you- and feel insulted..The ex will think that now his "friend' has intimate knowledge of what was his private domain..in the over all to be honest with you...it's not really a good idea.