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In regards to the truth of how you would view me in public is what I meant.
It's painful that I would be polite rather than friendly and engage you because you wanted me to?
Going by your posts most likely it'd only be painful based on whether I was good looking as it seems if I was average or below you'd likely wouldn't have even bothered to talk to me.
I think the first picture in the OP is the most flattering and then this last one. The Titanic one was actually pretty good, but most of the others in the OP are not flattering b/c of the way the light bounces off your glasses. You might could play around with them a bit though.
You're really going to take stock of what this poster thinks of you after reading what she posted?
Seems you have an issue with what I posted care to tell what's wrong with:
I think your looks will improve with exercise Do you think exercise generally doesn't make people more attractive?
I think whether your expectations/standards are too high is subjective Do you think there is too high expectations/standards outside of perfection?
I think as a guy your looks will be greatly overlooked Do you think guys don't get leeway on being judged based on youth/beauty?
I would be polite not friendly and engage you because you want me to Do you think gals are obligated to give guys attention when he wants it?
I find you bleh and think working out likely will move you up to meh or decent based on your efforts.
I most likely wouldn't have notice you if I saw you in a public place. My reaction if you tried to start a general conversation if we were standing in line at some venue would be 'I'm not interested in interacting with you'. You're not in need of assistance, I don't find you attractive
That part equates to why I said "ouch" The truth hurts as I knew it would in this thread, nothing more.
That part equates to why I said "ouch" The truth hurts as I knew it would in this thread, nothing more.
So it's ouch because I find you unattractive and would be polite rather than friendly and engage you because you wanted me to. Bit curious to if you feel gals are obligated to give you their attention and time because you want them to?
So it's ouch because I find you unattractive and would be polite rather than friendly and engage you because you wanted me to. Bit curious to if you feel gals are obligated to give you their attention and time because you want them to?
What is your problem? I don't see the OP has having an attitude that 'gals are obligated to give him their attention'? Point out to us from where you are getting it.
You sure are poking him hard with the stick over a simple legitimate question he posed. Wow.
Seems you have an issue with what I posted care to tell what's wrong with:
Men can get laid by any standard of women because they have a penis?
Where did you get that garbage from?
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Originally Posted by 1ceTr0n
That part equates to why I said "ouch" The truth hurts as I knew it would in this thread, nothing more.
On the contrary, everyone has said you are decent looking. Honestly, from one dude to another, your clothes are pretty bad, but that is just a personal decision. I dress well and it doesn't really help that much. Personally, I care more about how I dress than a woman who I'm interested in is dressed.
But if you're approaching women cold, a little bit more 'personality' in terms of your dress might help.
What is your problem? I don't see the OP has having an attitude that 'gals are obligated to give him their attention'? Point out to us from where you are getting it.
You sure are poking him hard with the stick over a simple legitimate question he posed. Wow.
Perhaps try his post right above mine. Quite unsure how I'm poking him hard with the stick over his question when I answered his question. I'm commenting on his reaction to my answer.
I was curious to if he felt that way since a gal being polite rather than friendly and engaging him because he wants her to is ouch, so painful, hurts, and such.
After looking at all the photos, here's my thoughts.
Lose a little weight. You don't have to "get ripped" or go crazy.
Avoid prints and wear more solid colors. Wear more medium or darker colors in shirts. With your coloring, choose a lot of blues and blue-greens, khaki, warm browns.
Walmart/Target? Consider at least upgrading to solid middle-of-the-road stores like JC Penney, Kohls, etc ... Your clothes will last longer.
Let your hair grow a little longer. Keep the cut longer on top. It would be great if some of your hair fell forward over your forehead. Don't listen to the person who told you to use gel.
The glasses can stay or not. You do have nice eyes that show more without them. Get an anti-reflective coating on your lenses and it will help your eyes to show better.
Once you've done all this, just be yourself. If you want some perspective, take a look at other men who are married or have a girlfriend. It will become obvious that effort is required, but not perfection.
I think you have a very sweet smile. If I were in the market, I'd give you a shot! You might try wearing clothes that are a little more "rakish". I personally love it when men wear scarves, the thick knitted kind and I think shawl collar sweaters really jack up a man's sex appeal. Here's what they look like. https://www.google.com/search?q=shaw...iw=891&bih=453
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