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Old 06-09-2012, 07:07 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Well maybe you need to pull out your feelings. And suck it up tell him that you do like him but it scares ya a bit. Hmmmmm. Life is short he may find someone better. Tick tock girl.....don't let it slip away!
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Old 06-09-2012, 07:09 PM
 
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No, he still wants you. But unless you show some clear interest he will move on. Act now or let it go.

Honestly, you are lucky. It seems the guy really does like you. But it is in your hands now to do something.
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wow you know what maybe i do need to say something

i just don;t know what i would say or how i would say it...
in fact anything to do with me and him coming from my mouth..will probably give him a heart attack...because its so rare..
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Old 06-09-2012, 07:19 PM
 
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You'd be better off that way trust me. Your attitude in this is unfair and immature, if you are not giving him anything to work with it is absolutely his right to see another girl. Do you expect him just to wait forever while you sit on your hands? If you like him you have to show him so, otherwise he can and will move on. So either tell him you would like to go on a date, or tell him you do not want to so he can move on. Anything else on your part would be selfish.
This.

And if you don't say anything, he will move on.
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Old 06-09-2012, 07:38 PM
 
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wow you know what maybe i do need to say something

i just don;t know what i would say or how i would say it...
in fact anything to do with me and him coming from my mouth..will probably give him a heart attack...because its so rare..
It shouldn't be hard, it sounds like he is the take charge type, he will do most of the work. Just say "Hey, I thought maybe we could go on a date sometime" or something. Or "I have been thinking, would you like to go on a date with me"? Something simple but clear.
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Old 06-09-2012, 07:45 PM
 
Location: Cardboard box
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Anyway in the last couple of weeks he has tried calling me but i havn't had the time to speak to him or anything, i havn't returned his calls, i'v been quite busy.. so after a few times of ringing me he text messaged me (this is very unusual for him he NEVER messages me), but i assumed its because i hadn't called him back or nothing.
You ignored the phone calls on purpose. So epic lame.
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Old 06-09-2012, 07:50 PM
 
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You ignored the phone calls on purpose. So epic lame.
Seriously, give me his number and I'll talk to him. "yo what's uuuuuup?" haha
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Old 06-09-2012, 07:54 PM
 
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You ignored the phone calls on purpose. So epic lame.
thanks for that
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Old 06-09-2012, 07:56 PM
 
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Seriously, give me his number and I'll talk to him. "yo what's uuuuuup?" haha
LOL.. im sure he'lll be very excited by even more female attention than he already gets...

and then he'll forget i ever existed Looolll
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Old 06-09-2012, 07:59 PM
 
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It shouldn't be hard, it sounds like he is the take charge type, he will do most of the work. Just say "Hey, I thought maybe we could go on a date sometime" or something. Or "I have been thinking, would you like to go on a date with me"? Something simple but clear.
ye i think i'd find even that hard.... i have sooo much pride lol

i have a feeling... that i wont end up doin that and ye he will lik find another girl and move on

thats why i mentioned that its happened to me before

however this guy is the one thats waited the longest! if he has that is lol
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Old 06-09-2012, 08:00 PM
 
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thanks for that

Seriously, it is just lame. How hard is it to pick up the phone or call someone back?
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