Angry bitter men a turnoff? Why? (problems, experiences, personal, relations)

[shortnblack]

Bitter people in general need to keep their bitterness to themselves and don't make others become bitter in the process. Get over yourself and try to your best to right the wrong in your mind that allows you to move forward with your life.

It is a two way street many times in life though.

There's the old saying "behind every good man there is an even better woman?" Well then, you can't deny that behind one a-hole comes a queen B that made the ass, dug his hole and shoved him in. Vice versa too.

[MIKEETC]

Originally Posted by stick2dascript

Is it resentment, not living how they wanted to live or a bad experience that they can't let go off? And women how can you tell a man is upset and bitter?

Because happy, cheerful people are more positive.

[who needs the negativity?]

[Oleg Bach]

The world rewards happy people. If you are negative and bitter or are with someone who is that- chances are you will be poor for a long long time- People will water the beautiful bloom and avoid the bitter withered flower.

[wordlife]

you attract what you are.

if you're dealing with a bitter person and you don't like their aura, bounce. It's really that simple, cut em off.

associate yourself with the happy and optimistic, regardless of your fortune.. just like misery, the spirit of happiness is contagious (as long as you don't live in fresno).

[gwynedd1]

Originally Posted by stick2dascript

Is it resentment, not living how they wanted to live or a bad experience that they can't let go off? And women how can you tell a man is upset and bitter?

Females of all species seek failures for mates to insure their off spring have little chance of survival. Not just failures mind you, but one who is bitter from repeated failure.What girl doesn't want to birth a weakling used as fodder or a hideous daughter as a gift from a god whose alter was a victim of systematic sacrilege and rejected prophets who beseeched her to follow her instincts or to even have a shred of common sense? Nature is generous with the violation of her rules for there is a loving hand that returns every fallen bird from its nest.

[NotARedneck]

Originally Posted by stick2dascript

Is it resentment, not living how they wanted to live or a bad experience that they can't let go off? And women how can you tell a man is upset and bitter?

Women hate to be confronted with the truth. Men who give it to them are labeled as "bitter" and they hate them. The truth sets you free and men who have found it and accept it are anything but bitter. Besides, "bitter" is a female attribute. Men get angry when they are used.

Men who get angry when women use and abuse them need to grow up. They should realize that they are better off without women.

Of course, having most of your wealth taken from you and being prevented from seeing your kids, sucks but they should have looked before they leaped. Lots of good advice for men on this site - when the complaints from women don't get it deleted.

[shortnblack]

Originally Posted by NotARedneck

Women hate to be confronted with the truth. Men who give it to them are labeled as "bitter" and they hate them. The truth sets you free and men who have found it and accept it are anything but bitter. Besides, "bitter" is a female attribute. Men get angry when they are used.

Men who get angry when women use and abuse them need to grow up. They should realize that they are better off without women.

Of course, having most of your wealth taken from you and being prevented from seeing your kids, sucks but they should have looked before they leaped. Lots of good advice for men on this site - when the complaints from women don't get it deleted.

This is very true in life.

Finding the truth is not always easy and accepting the truth just might be the toughest thing to do itself. The truth does set you free for the most part or it gives you an answer.

[sfcambridge]

Originally Posted by stick2dascript

Is it resentment, not living how they wanted to live or a bad experience that they can't let go off? And women how can you tell a man is upset and bitter?

Haven't read the thread.

Angry and bitter men are often depressed. Depression can look different in men.

See the doc.

[Braunwyn]

Originally Posted by NotARedneck

Women hate to be confronted with the truth. Men who give it to them are labeled as "bitter" and they hate them. The truth sets you free and men who have found it and accept it are anything but bitter. Besides, "bitter" is a female attribute. Men get angry when they are used.

Men who get angry when women use and abuse them need to grow up. They should realize that they are better off without women.

Of course, having most of your wealth taken from you and being prevented from seeing your kids, sucks but they should have looked before they leaped. Lots of good advice for men on this site - when the complaints from women don't get it deleted.

This ^^^ pov is about as bitter as bitter can be. The OP couldn't ask for a better example.

[Rabbitluvr]

Originally Posted by Braunwyn

This ^^^ pov is about as bitter as bitter can be. The OP couldn't ask for a better example.

But is it not true?