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I am an international in USA and today I met with one beautiful American girl on social event. It was from meetup group. There were 3 more girls other than me and her. I really liked her and she is single, I asked her. She was impress with me.
I took her phone no. but do not know how to ask her for date. She might think that I am taking advantage of meetup and she will never talk to me
What I should do? How to ask her out? I am asking you guys because I do not want to let her go just by saying NO.
Call her. She gave you her number because she wants you to call her. Tell her you'd like to spend some time with her, and ask her if she'd like to see a movie, go out for a meal, walk to a coffee shop or a bookstore, a neighborhood fest, etc. Also make sure you pay for everything.
I also say call her and if the telephone number you dial is met with "Tom's Diner how can I help you" the you'll know it was bogus. If it actually goes to her real phone then you are now in the game.
It's not hard DK007...just call her up and ask if she'd like to have dinner with you...whatever...don't worry about what she "might" think...that's just your insecurities showing...ASK HER OUT!!!
She already gave you her number dude!!! Unless it's a fake one, she'll answer and be HAPPY you called most likely. Tell her you enjoyed her company and would like to get to know her..ask her if she is interested in getting together again.. Perhaps for coffee, or lunch even. Something simple where there is no pressure..
If she says no, or never answers..then really, if she gave her number out, but is playing games...move on, she's not a good person : )
What kind of meet up was it? I can see how you would be concerned that she would think you were just prowling around a meet up looking for dates if the meet up was something totally unrelated. However, if she gave you her number I think she would be interested in getting a call from you. Just give her plenty of space at first. I like the poster who said give some options like dinner (more of a romantic date) or coffee (more time to get to know you as a friend).
It's no different than in DK, only American women are less reluctant to treat casual sex as an ordinary dating activity and are a lot less independent than American women. That may be a good thing in the short-term.
She gave you her phone number. She would not mind if you call her.
Call her, talk for a little bit, and ask her out. There is some nervousness, but work through it and do it anyway.
There is a quote I have heard.... something to the affect of... "You will more regret the things you didn't do, then regret the things you did do."
So basically, give her a call sometime, and ask her out. If you never try, you will never know.
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