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Happiness and a positive attitude come by not comparing yourself to others, or caring what strangers think, but by being the person YOU want to hang out with. Simple, simple, simple. But harder to put into practice. You have to train your brain through thought "reprogramming" and sometimes meditation, but it is possible.
One thing you can do NOW is appreciate your youth and never take it for granted. There will come another time in your life when people will pass you over and you will feel invisible, but it will be for entirely different reasons. So learn not to let it bother you now.
I agree with this here. What are the women in your group doing to attract these men? Are the smiling, being socialable, appearing to have fun? If so then thats what you need to do also. Make sure that you have positive energy and look approachable, then men will come talk to you.
Only on CityData could you find a woman who's afraid to get laid giving love advice to a woman who's afraid to look in the mirror! Gotta love it!
You don't have to agree with me, as usual and don't know what my not having sex has to do with any of this. But okay. Trust me the 'male winners' on here aren't making me want to get any closer to achieving this.
I hate this saying, it's such bull****. What happens if the one and only out there for someone lives halfway across the world? Not everyone has someone waiting for them.
I never said ONE and only. I don't believe that their is only a ONE and only.
You're always the girl in the group that guys rarely notice or approach. it's always the other women around you at work or school who guys socialize with and try to get to know.
How do you keep a positive mind and not always feel down and depressed? There are other women who are like that and I see that they are not phased. They still keep a good attitude. but it does get to me, and makes me depressed and not want to go to work the next day. It affects my work performance, I have a hard time concentrating because I feel that i have no value if I can't attract men as often as other women.
Not again?
Please go into therapy and learn to accept yourself.
What do you bring to the relationship, or potential relationship?
Geez, I don't want any sad sack or desperate person around me.
I'm old as dirt and get approached (in large social activities) by young guys regularly because I'm open and like myself, and it shows!
Granted, it's not a sexual attraction (I'm old enough to be some of their grandparents), but I don't go without men's attention for who I am.
And that's something you cultivate within yourself.
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Trust me the 'male winners' on here aren't making me want to get any closer to achieving this.
