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i met this girl at a subway and we instantly hit it off..we talked carelessly of whatever we could other than who we really were..made up fake names and so on then went and decided to go grab coffee right away..after a cup of coffee we decided to meet up the next day at 10 at night and that exchanging phone numbers was to clichè..well the next day came and we met up, went out for a small dinner and drinks..she stayed the night at my place..so now i do know her name and what she does but not where she works..to not rush it and play this game out a bit i decided to not kiss or have sex..just subtle advances of sex in conversation..the next day came and playing this game out like anyone i begin to kick her out..she asks if i can take her out for coffee so i agree to then that turns into her spending about $300 on me on just random stuff..we decide to call it a day and i assumed we were taking the same subway..so again with these pity games i get to the subway and as we wait i ignore her a bit to build some tension and when i turn around shes gone..
she knows where i will be this saturday but doesnt know a time i will be there because we said we would meet but never settled on a time..now im thibking due to these childish yet suspenseful and fun games weve been toying one another with ive lost her..any suggestions on what to do to find her? currently sitting at the subway station we met at around the same time we met hoping shes on a schedule..shes driving me crazy, never had a girl do me this way ahh
Maybe I am out of touch. But do girls really agree to spend the night at a stranger's place on the first date and then not even kiss him? Is that what the kids are up to these days?
i met this girl at a subway and we instantly hit it off..we talked carelessly of whatever we could other than who we really were..made up fake names and so on then went and decided to go grab coffee right away..after a cup of coffee we decided to meet up the next day at 10 at night and that exchanging phone numbers was to clichè..well the next day came and we met up, went out for a small dinner and drinks..she stayed the night at my place..so now i do know her name and what she does but not where she works..to not rush it and play this game out a bit i decided to not kiss or have sex..just subtle advances of sex in conversation..the next day came and playing this game out like anyone i begin to kick her out..she asks if i can take her out for coffee so i agree to then that turns into her spending about $300 on me on just random stuff..we decide to call it a day and i assumed we were taking the same subway..so again with these pity games i get to the subway and as we wait i ignore her a bit to build some tension and when i turn around shes gone..
she knows where i will be this saturday but doesnt know a time i will be there because we said we would meet but never settled on a time..now im thibking due to these childish yet suspenseful and fun games weve been toying one another with ive lost her..any suggestions on what to do to find her? currently sitting at the subway station we met at around the same time we met hoping shes on a schedule..shes driving me crazy, never had a girl do me this way ahh
You played the game and now you are paying the price $300.00 and no girl; think you got had?? Call it a day and find yourself someone who won't be so quick to spend the first night with you, spend your money, lie to you about who she is at first then POOF she is gone. Sounds like a scene from When Harry Met Sally or something. Too much drama. Find yourself a new girl and forget that you were foolish enough to toss $300.00 away on a stranger. She has evidently had some fun with you and is not interested. Move on.
You played the game and now you are paying the price $300.00 and no girl; think you got had?? Call it a day and find yourself someone who won't be so quick to spend the first night with you, spend your money, lie to you about who she is at first then POOF she is gone. Sounds like a scene from When Harry Met Sally or something. Too much drama. Find yourself a new girl and forget that you were foolish enough to toss $300.00 away on a stranger. She has evidently had some fun with you and is not interested. Move on.
You might want to read his post again.
Anyhow, OP, it sounds sweet and fun. Maybe you'll run into her again. If not, you have fond memories from it.
I guess stranger things have happened than beginning a relationship (even a potentially brief one) on games. However, you need to remember that games can be taken too far.
IF you see her again, I'd either forego the game aspect entirely OR, if she plays at it, soften it up quite a bit. And I would finish your time together, whether she stays the night OR departs at the end of the evening, by saying "[Fake name] would like to see you again, [her fake name] -- and so would I, [her real name]."
Maybe it's grand and magical, maybe it boils down to nonsense. Romance takes many forms.
No woman likes a pushover; but if you like her, don't play it SO cool that you're actually cold.
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