Men with multiple children from different women

[NilaJones]

Originally Posted by Yiuppy

Oh for crying out loud.

I'd bet that one of every three women, at some time in their younger years, had sex with someone who was a total uncommitted clown they didn't realize until later was a loser. People grow up, people make mistakes and some actually turn out to be very wise, women with lots of common sense and far higher standards than when they were dumb.

The only difference is they lucked out and didn't get pregnant, whereas another woman just like them didn't have such luck.

Yes. More like 19 out of 20.

I'd like to see more discussion about why girls open themselves to boys who can't do anything for them in the first place. Low self esteem, need for validation, absent father, and no focus on how their future should be because they're just "living in the moment,"

Is that why young men sleep with women who 'can't do anything for them'? Or are most women asexual?

Nothing will change until those issues are honestly and bluntly addressed and the subcultures that accommodate that behavior is educated about healthy relationships and vanquished.

Moral conflicts like this aren't fixed by depriving the children of girls who made poor decisions of food, shelter, and love. It won't be fixed by legislating all the children into a negligent, lackluster and sometimes abusive, foster care system where many of them are never adopted before aging out of the system.

Sure.

But that solution requires greater responsibility on each individual in society to change their perspective of an ideal woman, and face that men need to respect women and not only validate them for being sexually appealing; and women need to fancy modesty and, as we call it, sit on a high horse and be taught that we are worth a lot and let no one beneath us spoil our mind and bodies.

Or maybe men need to be taught to be modest and pure, and that sex is something that spoils their minds and their bodies. Makes about as much sense.

[Yshudicare]

If people wanna have kids then let them. If they don't want the govt involved ( marriage ) then dont ask the govt for help. If you and your kids are hungry go get something to eat. If you cant afford it then you shouldve thought about that first huh? Don't ask the govt for help. Do it yourself. If you cant then ask your friends and family. If they cant or wont help then too bad. Stop asking others to fix your problems that you put yourself in.

[BradPiff]

I knew a guy who had 3 women pregnant at the same time lol

[rationalmale18]

Originally Posted by Jay F

I know several childless men who would have made good fathers but no women were interested in them. All are good guys but they have no dominance. At the other extreme there seems to be a growing number of men with multiple children from different "baby mamma's" These men usually can't or won't pay child support and the mothers go on welfare. Contrary to childless men, these baby daddies tend to be extremely dominant.

I saw one on the show "the first 48" . This murderer was only in his 20s and already had 12 children from several different baby mamma's. Why were so many women attracted to him? He was a bad boy of course. His entire body was covered in tattoos. He had a muscular build and was very masculine...the "real man" today's young women demand. I'm sure no women rejected him for being "too nice" or "not confident". I would argue that the women who mothered his children could sense his killer instinct and liked it. I'm sure he will get plenty of fan mail from the ladies while he's behind prison walls.

The family is in steep decline in America. I believe women having multiple children with some guys,while other men go childless is a key reason for this decline. We need to encourage women to choose decent men to raise families with, The thing is good fathers are not bad boys. Bad boys are absolute garbage. Our entire civilization will be destroyed if women keep choosing bad boys.

I see two solutions for this problem. First sterilize every deadbeat dad who has children with two or more women. If they catch a guy with 10+ baby mamma's and he's not paying full child support for all of them go ahead and castrate him.

Next, if a woman chooses to have children with a a deadbeat dad with one or more other baby mamma's make her ineligible for any welfare whatsoever. This will give women incentive to choose a quality man. Some would argue if you cut off welfare the children will suffer. Well take the children away if the mother can't support them. Send the kids to foster care. If the mother cries it's her own damn fault, she the one who picked a deadbeat who alreday had kids from different women. She thought he was a "real man" because he looks the part. No, sorry a real man wouldn't get multiple women pregnant...he would be a devoted husband and father...a real family man.

It used to be this way. Women with children out of wedlock where chit out of luck.

Now we have articles literally encouraging single motherhood, which I believe is a disease.

[Lilac110]

Originally Posted by Jay F

I know several childless men who would have made good fathers but no women were interested in them. All are good guys but they have no dominance. At the other extreme there seems to be a growing number of men with multiple children from different "baby mamma's" These men usually can't or won't pay child support and the mothers go on welfare. Contrary to childless men, these baby daddies tend to be extremely dominant.

I wouldn't say that. I would say that the women they are with are extremely stupid. Who would get involved with a known deadbeat? It defies all logic.

[Idon'tdateyou]

Decent women don't date baby daddies. I know several women who had kids by baby daddies but they had serious problems.

[Lilygreen00]

How wants to date a guy that got multiple woman knocked up? What guy wants to date a woman that have had kids with three or more different guys . it is a big red flag on top of dealing with all the drama . No thanks.