Describe your perfect partner (Christian, married, women, lover)

[BirdieBelle]

He like pro wrestling, doesn't mind that I work at Hooters, wants to eat my excellent cooking and will help me drink all this free beer I have in my basement.

Oops!! JK!

Ok here's my real list:

6'2"
great physical shape
broad shoulders, long legs
not the loudest guy in the room; you might not even notice him at first
a sarcastic (but not biting) sense of humor
sweet and deferential around old people and kids
outdoorsy
handy around the house
non-smoker
likes home and family but not afraid to try new things & places
protective & caring but not jealous
Finishes what he starts
Starts what needs to be finished.
Other qualities I won't specify so I don't get banned

[Phoenix2017]

My list of the qualities of a hypothetical perfect partner:

1. A caring, loving, sweet, sensitive woman (meant, as in gentle, compassionate, affectionate, kindhearted, etc.).
2. Non-confrontational: prefers to avoid arguing and to gently "talk things out" together through mutual and joint positive consensus instead, whenever possible.
3. Enjoys giving and receiving frequent verbal and (PG-rated) physical affection...also must like lots of cuddling, lol!
4. Likes to to say and/or receive from a beloved the words "ILY", frequently (meant 100% genuinely, every time).
5. Respectful of differences of opinion and can "agree to disagree, without being disagreeable".
6. Believes that vows like "to have and to hold", "in sickness and in health", and "until death do us part" are holy sacraments and a sacred bond of love, not just mere empty words.
7. Pure/virtuous/innocent (take your pick of the exact term, lol) in terms of intimate experience is a nice plus, but not mandatory or a requirement -- just as long as she has a caring and loving heart, she is already 100% perfect to me.
8. An idealist at heart, and sees the good, rather than the bad, first and foremost in people.
9. Is slow to anger.
10. Truly cares about her fellow human beings, and works to alleviate suffering when possible.
11. Believes in the power of unconditional romantic love and true love, and is forgiving and compassionate of a loved one's mistakes (not counting adultery or abuse here, for obvious reasons).
12. Any height / complexion / hair color / eye color / race would be great

[jasper12]

Originally Posted by Philosophizer

Physical traits:

5'9 (I'm 6'1 and would like to have tall kids)
Curvy (D cups, wide hips, and a nice sized booty)
Blonde
Fair skinned
Blue eyes

Personality/Character/Intangibles:

Smart/witty/wise
stubborn/opinionated/strong willed (Super hot)
Libertarian leanings
A little kinky
mile high sex drive
an appreciation for the outdoors
class act
honest/communicates how she really feels
cultured/well educated/appreciation for the finer things in life

Does anyone here fit the bill by chance? haha, I kinda doubt it because a woman as described wouldn't be single.

I fit your "perfect" woman...except no "D"...and I have issues about plastic surgery. Oh...I am also 5'11"...so...sorry....I am single, by choice.

My "perfect" man...would be about 6'4", professional career, interested in outdoors, his idea of a vacation would be going to Glacier Park. He has a dog. He is under 60 years old. No smoking, drugs, he does not drink much. He would not mind helping around the house, and has no anger management issues. No mental health problems.

I don't think this guy exists.

[1ceTr0n]

Long dark brown or black hair
Deep brown eyes
Light naturally tanned skin
Of Asian,Hawiian,China or India decent
Around 5' - 5'10''
Warm and gentle smile
Communicates thoughts and feelings easily
Tender, loving and compassionate in heart and nature
Cute girlish laugh
C sized breasts
Curvy body figure with good meat on the butt, thigh and calves
Good cook
Likes to be silly and goofy
Likes to be random at times and go with the flow
Loves to play around and experiment in and out of bed with sex
Likes to do flowers and gardening
Has good interior decur taste
Has a good and stable mind
Quick witted and a little mouthy at times
Likes to play video games
Doesn't take everything too seriously
Loves to hold hands, cuddles and being touched
Doesn't desire children
Enjoys their work/career
Likes cats
Tattoo and body peircing free
Non smoker
Likes to drink wine and get plastered sometimes for hell of it
A bit of a geek as well

[Gatsby1925]

Ok, My ideal mate would be:

Physically

Muscular, thick build. Not a steroid-using bodybuilding look, but the look of a woman with full, thick muscle. Strong thighs and arms are super attractive.
Glasses
Hair color doesn't matter
Height doesn't matter
Short hair, anything shorter than shoulder-length.
Piercings (eyebrow, lip rings)
Tattoos

Personality:
Intelligent. Cares about world affairs and current events
Well-read. Is a fan of classic and influential literature
Appreciates the arts
Likes foreign and classic film.
Is a tomboy. Is not afraid to pursue athletic endeavors or do activities that are traditionally geared towards men (like heavy weight training)

[stan4]

Originally Posted by Philosophizer

Physical traits:

5'9 (I'm 6'1 and would like to have tall kids)
Curvy (D cups, wide hips, and a nice sized booty)
Blonde
Fair skinned
Blue eyes

Personality/Character/Intangibles:

Smart/witty/wise
stubborn/opinionated/strong willed (Super hot)
Libertarian leanings
A little kinky
mile high sex drive
an appreciation for the outdoors
class act
honest/communicates how she really feels
cultured/well educated/appreciation for the finer things in life

Does anyone here fit the bill by chance? haha, I kinda doubt it because a woman as described wouldn't be single.

I know someone who is exactly like this, but she's not tall.
I mean EXACTLY like this.

[midatlantic12]

Physical traits:

5'6/5'7
Athletic build while still having a nice shape; nice abs and very shapely, firm legs/rear-end would be ideal.
Brunette
Olive/honey-golden skin (I prefer the exotic/mixed look)
Green/grey eyes (brown is fine as well, though)

Personality/Character/Intangibles:

Smart/witty/wise
Liberal views
A little kinky
high sex drive (but not too high)
Enjoys drinking
Enjoys sports
Loves working out/exercising
Likes to travel
very honest/communicates how she really feels
Is somewhat frugal
Has at least a master degree and the potential to earn over $100k/year.

[noela]

Tall (because I'm 6'0) but not too tall (approx. 6'2 would be great).
Lean yet athletic. Not flabby or bony!
Black or dark brown hair, relatively short. Wavy would be perfect.
Dark eyes, intense, deep and expressive, with long lashes.
Nice smile, healthy mouth.
Looks good with and without a beard.
Somewhat full lips. I don't like the George Clooney type...
Nice hands, well manicured (no nail biting).
No body waxing, thank you, which is why he shouldn't be hairy in the wrong places lol.
Handsome face.
Masculine voice.

He has a wide array of interests (cultural and otherwise) and a couple of huge passions which he won't mind sharing.
He's a very private individual (not with me lol) but not particularly shy or insecure: he handles any social situation quite well.
He can be alone without feeling lonely. He's somewhat individualistic.
He's an avid listener.
He's handy.
He doesn't mind housework and enjoys some of it, like cooking.
He's tidy and organised, though not overly so.
He practices sports on a regular basis and with genuine pleasure and ability.
He minds his health and his appearance. Again: not overly (pathologically) so!
He won't let people manipulate him, not even me of course.
He has a wicked sense of humour.
He's quick, intelligent and intuitive.
Not moody.
Not self-centered.
Not lazy.
Not indisciplined.
Not impolite.
Not jealous of other people's success.
Not dependent on anybody.
Loyal but not to the point of being blindly irrational.
Deeply affectionate and sensitive with a select few, courteous and pleasant company with everybody else.
He knows how important empathy is.


Needless to say, except for the eye colour, my SO satisfies it all lol

[tegota]

If I could program the perfect partner; I'd eventually get bored with it. Want to change the program up a bit.

Seems both wiser and easier, just to take things as they come.

[SEAandATL]

Originally Posted by JetJockey

Has a job
Doesn't do drugs/smoke weed
Not an alcoholic
Has at least a High School education and can hold a conversation
Doesn't look/dress like a 'thug' i.e. baggy jeans, gold teeth, wears a ton of jewelry etc.

That's about it at this point.
So far, the guys I've met that have met all of my super high demands haven't been interested in me.

Are you a flight attendant? That would make me interested in you and I fit the above categories .

That said, my idea of a perfect girl is:

-Has a good job that requires a uniform or nice clothes (flight attendant, businesswoman, secratary, etc.)
-Dresses nice (outside of work as well)
-Petite to medium build, with nice legs that would look great in a short skirt and stockings/pantyhose (what I mean by the above)
-Sweet and caring
-Great sense of humor and fun to be with
-Patient
-Not jealous or controlling
-Fun in the bedroom of course
-No baggage or drama
-And finally, nothing like my ex-wife, lol

I think I've found my perfect partner who fits the above categories, with the exception of no baggage/drama (which I've mentioned in another thread). The other unfortunate thing is that it is long distance and I only get to see her twice a year.