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Old 06-19-2012, 03:28 PM
 
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Bait, switch, and guilt.

I had a guy I went on a date with and we've been talking quite a bit, seeming to have great chemistry. Then last night, he starts talking sexual stuff. I take that talk one step further, he declines me on that step (but is nice about it), but now seems to be making me feel guilty for going there, even though he started the sex talk to begin with (I wasn't going there at all before he did).

Is this like a common game they play?
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Old 06-19-2012, 03:53 PM
 
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Why do you feel this is only applicable to 'chicks' and 'gay guys'?
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Old 06-19-2012, 04:31 PM
 
Location: New Jersey
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Bait, switch, and guilt.

I had a guy I went on a date with and we've been talking quite a bit, seeming to have great chemistry. Then last night, he starts talking sexual stuff. I take that talk one step further, he declines me on that step (but is nice about it), but now seems to be making me feel guilty for going there, even though he started the sex talk to begin with (I wasn't going there at all before he did).

Is this like a common game they play?

What Thursday said.
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Old 06-19-2012, 04:42 PM
 
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Bait, switch, and guilt.

I had a guy I went on a date with and we've been talking quite a bit, seeming to have great chemistry. Then last night, he starts talking sexual stuff. I take that talk one step further, he declines me on that step (but is nice about it), but now seems to be making me feel guilty for going there, even though he started the sex talk to begin with (I wasn't going there at all before he did).

Is this like a common game they play?
A girl and I arranged to meet after work on a spot to go out for dinner. I called to let her know at what time I could be there and she said something like “…sounds good, ok. There is a big crowd here but you’ll see me. You can’t miss the girl with the big titties”..........I didn't laugh, didn't comment. Didn't see it as a turn on either.
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Old 06-20-2012, 12:31 AM
 
Location: Southern California
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A girl and I arranged to meet after work on a spot to go out for dinner. I called to let her know at what time I could be there and she said something like “…sounds good, ok. There is a big crowd here but you’ll see me. You can’t miss the girl with the big titties”..........I didn't laugh, didn't comment. Didn't see it as a turn on either.
You went to Hooters!?

[the food is not so good]
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