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l m a simple women quiet .and still enjoy my single life l was ill recently when l was looking a docotor l v seen almost women have a guy along. but on my own l was alone,l want to relationship so badly at that moment ,seriously l was aways bad luck . l v dated few guys ， some of them even ask me go to hotel at frist date， l got tired to meet any guys，every people want to truth love but do u think somethings more rarity and more hard to get??
You you living in shanghai? This could be part of the reason why you're having a bit of difficulty.
yesssssssss its truth...more men than women in china.but l seem is little bit fussy, and tell you a secret that l fussy white men also. lolol hope its a better answer for u
Juann - you are looking for a westerner? If so, then there are plenty of dating sites such as AsianFriendFinder etc but also there are forums where westerners go to post. In Beijing, there is the Beijinger | Beijing classifieds, forum, directory, blog, and more | thebeijinger.com and there must be similar ones in Shanghai too. What I suggest is that you become a regular poster on these forums and then you can get to know these personalities and find out if they are good kind people or not. I met my wife on Chinadaily forum but we were not looking for partners there, it just kind-of happened.
On your profile, it may be a good idea NOT to say that "shopping" is your interest. I know that this might be the truth, but you are selling yourself in your profile. If I was looking at this, I would think you might be a "high maintenance girl" and spend a lot of time shopping and need a lot of money too. This might put some men off and is something which you could tell them later after they had got to know you better. :-)
There really are a LOT of issues to overcome if you date a westerner, so I would recommend that you do not - unless you and he are very flexible and laid-back. Many, many of this kind of relationship fail after only a couple of years. I know you do not want to hear this, but it will save you heart-ache later if you realise it now.
Some girls I know seem to think that mix-race babies are pretty with large eyes and curly hair. Yes, maybe. However, often the kids themselves have identity problems because they do not know if they are asian or western. Of course, this depends on their looks too, but can cause problems. Do you really want to give your kids this kind of problem just because you fancy a westerner?
If you are not looking for a westerner, then you need to ask your friends if they will recommend you to their relatives etc. I understood this was how it worked here and how you met people of the opposite sex. If you are looking for a Chinese man, them why has this not worked for you? You can be TOO fussy and end up with no-one being as good as you need them to be. :-) We all have our faults and you need to recognise that you have yours too, so if you accept that, you are more likely to accept that your man will not be perfect also.
I assume that you are what you say you are, a good kind person, honest etc. This makes it more difficult to find someone. I have a theory that men like the bad girls, cause they can get them in bed easier, and women like the bad boys because it gives them the green light to also be bad. Being bad is what comes naturally to us. Eg> In my school it was the bad boys that were popular. The guys that studied hard, got good grades were the ones that got mocked and made fun of. Why? My guess is that the other students didn't like being made to look bad, so they ended up hating those people that were smarter, and got better grades. Just good old jealosy and envy.
So your quest will be more difficult, because I assume you are looking for someone like yourself.
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