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Originally Posted by lovesMountains
It has been my experience in life that it is best not to generalize when it comes to sizing people up.
Every individual deserves to be seen for WHO they are, not what they are.
I hope you say that the next time a girl comes onto the forum and asks "this guy I'm interested has slept with 25 women in the last year should I give him a chance?":
I hope you say that the next time a girl comes onto the forum and asks "this guy I'm interested has slept with 25 women in the last year should I give him a chance?":
Of the twelve things listed by the OP as dealbreakers, only four of them include behaviors exhibited by the hypothetical woman being refused. They are: attention whoring, cheating, promiscuity, and making bad choices in males. And the last one isn't even necessarily the woman's fault. Most of us, including most of you "smart" ones, have done this at least once. The rest of them are things outside of the woman's control. Have any old sayings to apply to them?
"Find Another" - My Dad
This behavior uncommon?
keep telling yourself that (It's actually pretty funny).
Its more common than ever, in my life i've found the exception to be life abroad (heh, that was kind of a double entendre), that discussion is something entirely different. Again we can agree to disagree, a woman making a bad choice in a male should be noted for that (that's not outside of her control). People need to be held accountable for bad/horrible behavior that's occurring in the present.
I can't help but laugh every time that I hear "buuuuuut i''mmmmmm aaa goooooood persssssoonn!"
I hope you say that the next time a girl comes onto the forum and asks "this guy I'm interested has slept with 25 women in the last year should I give him a chance?":
The difference is that no one labels him "damaged goods." By the OP's definition I am damaged goods several times over b/c I am divorced and take meds for ADD. Whatever. I didn't want to date him anyway.
The difference is that no one labels him "damaged goods." By the OP's definition I am damaged goods several times over b/c I am divorced and take meds for ADD. Whatever. I didn't want to date him anyway.
I''m sure you've managed to deal with divorce and have relationships after the fact. If so, this is shocking news to the OP.
keep telling yourself that (It's actually pretty funny).
Its more common than ever, in my life i've found the exception to be life abroad (heh, that was kind of a double entendre), that discussion is something entirely different. Again we can agree to disagree, a woman making a bad choice in a male should be noted for that (that's not outside of her control). People need to be held accountable for bad/horrible behavior that's occurring in the present.
I can't help but laugh every time that I hear "buuuuuut i''mmmmmm aaa goooooood persssssoonn!"
please.
Held accountable how, exactly? Wearing a scarlet letter? Public shaming?
EVERYONE has made mistakes, if they choose not to learn from them than that's on them. But I'm not going to judge someone for admitting that they've made some bad decisions in the past, learned from them and moved on.
I hope you say that the next time a girl comes onto the forum and asks "this guy I'm interested has slept with 25 women in the last year should I give him a chance?":
No, why become the 26th as he goes on to the 27th?
No, you're smart. All of what you mentioned and more are deal-breakers for me. Girls that have diseases like Bipolar Disorder will stab you in the back on a whim; and its not like they can help themselves. Who wants to be around a ticking time bomb?
I got enough problems dealing with my own issues; much less someone elses.
As long as you don't expect someone else to deal with yours, sounds fair.
a woman making a bad choice in a male should be noted for that (that's not outside of her control).
What story are you imagining? Because I don't think you're putting enough thought into this. Sometimes, a person might seem GREAT and turn out to be a bad choice. To say that one can always know whether another person is going to be good to them (or whatever standard you're holding them to) is quite unrealistic. Yes, sometimes, there are signs that you shouldn't get with a particular person. But they're not always there; and you can't fault someone for not seeing signs that aren't there.
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Originally Posted by wordlife
People need to be held accountable for bad/horrible behavior that's occurring in the present.
I can't help but laugh every time that I hear "buuuuuut i''mmmmmm aaa goooooood persssssoonn!"
please.
I don't even know what subject you're on at this point, wordlife... But I agree that people should be held accountable for present behavior wholeheartedly.
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