Dating a Feminine Guy? (friends, clothes, interested, accept)
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I don't think a guy who seems gay and a guy who seems feminine are the same thing.
IMO traits of a feminine guy:
+reactionary when it comes to physical attraction--won't approach/make a move unless the other person does first.
+higher, softer voice than most men
+cries easily, "moved" by emotion easily, shares feelings even when not prompted
+loves gossip (celebrity and otherwise)
+prefers approval, sympathy, etc. from women than men
+more self-conscious about physical imperfections
+curvier, softer physical features
A guy is feminine if he does not approach, how?
soft voice yet still masculine a masculine voice.
gossip is a waste of time in general whether or not who does it
in the work force, sometimes you do need an approval.
majority of men are not in shape anyway.
The guy is a hetero, right? So that you are even making it an issue shows that you are controlled by the outdated cultural blueprint of what gender roles should look like. The guy has nothing wrong with him. It's you and most of our current culture that does.
The guy is a hetero, right? So that you are even making it an issue shows that you are controlled by the outdated cultural blueprint of what gender roles should look like. The guy has nothing wrong with him. It's you and most of our current culture that does.
Nah, I get what she means perfectly.
I can't grasp why it is so hard to imagine for most.
I get it just fine.
A <180> of this. While "this" is what she wants.
Nah, I get what she means perfectly.
I can't grasp why it is so hard to imagine for most.
I get it just fine.
A <180> of this. While "this" is what she wants.
That makes absolutely no sense other than as an instrument to inflate your own ego by postulating an image in the OP's mind that conforms to the image you most likely have of yourself. How predictable.
I don't know how to explain it. He's just very proper. He likes to bake cookies. It's in his mannerisms and the way he talks. It's more than just dressing well, it's in the way he moves. Haven't you ever met someone and thought yep, they're gay...but maybe he's really not. I really prefer more rugged kind of guys normally. Ones who fix things and watch sports...I don't know. I don't want to get into stereotypes and gender roles.
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Originally Posted by Shankapotomus
That makes absolutely no sense other than as an instrument to inflate your own ego by postulating an image in the OP's mind that conforms to the image you most likely have of yourself. How predictable.
Not that very many even know WHAT the hell that even is or means anyway.......
Okay, you obviously need to leave the forums. Your contributions from the Doug and Carrie Heffernan school of relationship advice doesn't cut it here, kiddo.
Okay, you obviously need to leave the forums. Your contributions from the Doug and Carrie Heffernan school of relationship advice doesn't cut it here, kiddo.
I'll leave you be "kiddo".
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