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09-29-2007, 03:51 PM
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Location: Maryland
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Workplace Romance
New hot guy in the office. I would love to have sex with him.  Early stages of flirting. I'm NOT looking for a relationship. I would love it to be very secretive. But, I'm still on the fence of going forward. He's located in my organization, so, not in my work area. I see him almost everyday. |
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09-29-2007, 04:03 PM
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Location: San Diego, CA
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Originally Posted by Childfree35
New hot guy in the office. I would love to have sex with him. Early stages of flirting. I'm NOT looking for a relationship. I would love it to be very secretive. But, I'm still on the fence of going forward. He's located in my organization, so, not in my work area. I see him almost everyday. |
Wow workplace romances are almost never secretive. You two would need a good understanding of what the boundaries of flirting/ETC are at work.
Otherwise I would say dont do it. Workplace romances are almost always trouble. |
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09-29-2007, 04:17 PM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Childfree35
New hot guy in the office. I would love to have sex with him. Early stages of flirting. I'm NOT looking for a relationship. I would love it to be very secretive. But, I'm still on the fence of going forward. He's located in my organization, so, not in my work area. I see him almost everyday. |
Are you serious 
Do you like your job?
As lost said they are not secret. If you are not looking for a relationship find someone where you don't work. People get labeled real quick with that sort of behavior in an office. |
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09-29-2007, 09:18 PM
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Location: Missouri
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Go for it, but be sure that it is worth the potential consequences. It almost never stays a secret.
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09-29-2007, 09:46 PM
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Undaunted, the band played on...
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I've had my eye onyou too... we won't tell, never ever... I promise.
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09-29-2007, 09:47 PM
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Location: AZ
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I would say dating someone you work with wouldn't be worth the risk. Alot of people like to gossip.
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09-29-2007, 10:55 PM
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I hate hate!
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Location: Loveland, OH
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I would say if you don't want a relationship don't do it. Just having a sexual relationship could get awkward at work.
I started dating my wife while we worked at the same company on the same project. We managed to keep it under wraps for a month or so until a co-worker ran into us in the mall and we were holding hands. We had a brief awkward conversation and left. Unfortunately, that particular co-worker was one of the bigger loudmouths and on the following Monday just about the whole company knew we were dating. It was never really an issue though.
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09-30-2007, 12:40 AM
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Location: San Francisco
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Childfree35
New hot guy in the office. I would love to have sex with him. Early stages of flirting. I'm NOT looking for a relationship. I would love it to be very secretive. But, I'm still on the fence of going forward. He's located in my organization, so, not in my work area. I see him almost everyday. |
Don't do it. I have NEVER mixed Business and Pleasure. It's not worth the potential outcomes...
Sure I have met several attractive women whom I had the pleasure of working with but never had sex with them and never will in the future. |
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09-30-2007, 07:51 AM
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Just a simple country gal.
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Join Date: Jun 2007
Location: Calif.
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Ive done it, back in Calif, a couple of times, and though it was no secret. It was more of speculation, and no one could really prove either way. Funny thing was, no one even asked, they only guessed.  |
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09-30-2007, 10:07 AM
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Not a member
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Join Date: Aug 2007
Location: in drifts of snow wherever you go
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Childfree35
New hot guy in the office. I would love to have sex with him. Early stages of flirting. I'm NOT looking for a relationship. I would love it to be very secretive. But, I'm still on the fence of going forward. He's located in my organization, so, not in my work area. I see him almost everyday. |
Not a good idea. |
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