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Old 07-17-2012, 06:43 PM
 
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You're disappointed in your girlfriend? I am rolling on the floor laughing...yeah right. Get over it.

 
Old 07-17-2012, 07:32 PM
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Location: Eastern Oregon
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I self infuse every other week (I have a mediport in my chest so I walk around with an IV sticking out of my collarbone area for 3 hours) and my ex would do nothing but complain because I wanted to sit on the couch and watch tv during my infusion times. Apparently, I was supposed to clean and cook while dragging a 3 ft IV line around
I'm honestly surprised you didn't stab him in the ass with a needle to show him what's it's like, then tell him to get cooking! "Oh by the way, don't pull that out, you still have 2 hours and 59 mins to go...."
 
Old 07-17-2012, 08:18 PM
 
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You're disappointed in your girlfriend? I am rolling on the floor laughing...yeah right. Get over it.
Seriously. I've had 20+ kidney stones and I'm always able to get food for myself after an hour of pain medication (which I'm sure he got at the ER) or after it moved to the bladder, not sure why OP wasn't able to.
 
Old 07-17-2012, 08:32 PM
 
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If she is a live in girl friend that tells me she isn't super smart to begin with, but she is smart enough to realize you can do your own cooking, if you want to eat. Why did you ask her to cook for you? Aren't you perfectly capable of doing that for yourself? Because she is a woman doesn't automatically mean she should cook and take care of you, unless that is part of your agreement for her living there and you paying the bills. But, I doubt if that is the situation. I suspect you have this idea that she should be doing her fair share, and she has the idea that she has already done her fair share. Do your own cooking, laundry, and cleaning, and you won't have any problems with her until you do something else that shows her you are a typical male.
 
Old 07-17-2012, 09:50 PM
 
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Seriously. I've had 20+ kidney stones and I'm always able to get food for myself after an hour of pain medication (which I'm sure he got at the ER) or after it moved to the bladder, not sure why OP wasn't able to.
I was expecting her to cook for me because that's what she always do. She mentioned before going to her doctor that we eat out when she's back. I forgot and asked her to cook.
 
Old 07-17-2012, 09:52 PM
 
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I was expecting her to cook for me because that's what she always do. She mentioned before going to her doctor that we eat out when she's back. I forgot and asked her to cook.
Are you sure you're not talking about your Mother here rather than your girlfriend
 
Old 07-17-2012, 09:55 PM
 
Location: Up above the world so high!
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I was expecting her to cook for me because that's what she always do. She mentioned before going to her doctor that we eat out when she's back. I forgot and asked her to cook.
You owe her an apology.
 
Old 07-17-2012, 09:57 PM
 
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I woke up at 2am feeling severe pain on back. suspecting of having kidny stone, I was getting ready to drive myself to an ER, but my girl friend insisted that she drove me because she worried about me. We went to hospital together and stayed there untill 8am in the morning, gf has companied me the whole time.

We came home and rested briefly, I was fine and started working from home and girl friend had to go to a doctor appointment at 10am, she went for 2 hours, after she's back I asked if everything was ok she said yes. So i asked if she could cook something for me that's when gf went off and said that I had no consideration for her and no heart. She went on saying that she just had a precedure done at docotor's office and still feeling pain herself. How could I even ask her to cook. I felt like all she needed to do was just telling me that she's tired instead giving me all of this complaining ****. I yelled at her to shut up and feeling dissapointed that she would start a fight over something like this.
The best thing to do next time is pick up the phone and have something delivered, especially if you knew she was going to have some sort of procedure done at the doctor. My question is why didn't you go with her to the Doctor?
 
Old 07-17-2012, 09:59 PM
 
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I was expecting her to cook for me because that's what she always do. She mentioned before going to her doctor that we eat out when she's back. I forgot and asked her to cook.
Additionally, you just forgot that she had just had a procedure done at the doctor?

It seems you may want to go to the doc yourself, so many memory lapses at your age are concerning.
 
Old 07-17-2012, 10:24 PM
 
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The best thing to do next time is pick up the phone and have something delivered, especially if you knew she was going to have some sort of procedure done at the doctor. My question is why didn't you go with her to the Doctor?
She didn't ask me to go with her. I was expecting her to cook because that's what she always does. I would have had food delivered if she told me to do so. But she just started complaining that she's hungry and tired why I still ask her to cook. I feel like if she wants to build a family with me she should conduct herself better.
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