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Old 07-18-2012, 02:14 PM
 
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I had an excellent first date Monday night. At the end of it she mentioned how her Facebook is restricted and impossible to find but mentioned something about how I'll get to see something "when I Friend you." I found her Facebook on my own and hit Send Friend Request, thinking it would bring up some options. Instead it just sent her a request and now I feel funny. I wanted to just send her a message along the lines of "Ha! Found you!" and am thinking of maybe texting this to her. If I repeal my request, she'll probably be confused since chances are it went to her email already.

I feel like a fool. I'm not sure how to handle it now... Maybe I should call and leave a message explaining that I did it my accident?
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Old 07-18-2012, 02:16 PM
 
Location: Land of Thought and Flow
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Depends on how you want to play it. I might say that the "impossible to find" was a challenge and I accept all challenges.
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Old 07-18-2012, 02:20 PM
 
Location: Chicago
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Thats weird. I just did the exact same thing... to a tee. Except she didn't say anything about hers being impossible to find, although it was hard to find. She was unsearchable via facebook and I found it another way. Anyway, I just kind of ignored the whole situation and she accepted me. She hasn't talked to me since though.
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Old 07-18-2012, 02:41 PM
 
Location: Texas
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Caught with your pants down lol. I never creep on a new love interest. The less I know about them and they know about me, the better things organically develop spending time together.
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Old 07-18-2012, 02:41 PM
 
Location: Between Heaven And Hell.
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I don't see the problem!

Facebook is quite shallow anyway, people befriend others, for all sorts of stupid reasons!

Give it time.

Don't stress.
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Old 07-18-2012, 02:48 PM
 
Location: Planet Earth, USA
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How did you find it? I would do the text "haha found you on facebook!" thing so you don't come across like you were stalking her.

I would do it immediately before she sees the invite and thinks you're a weirdo.
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Old 07-18-2012, 02:49 PM
 
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Yes, call her and explain it to her, and then tell her not to worry because she won't be disappointed by you, and then knock her socks off on the next date!!
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Old 07-18-2012, 02:56 PM
 
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How did you find it? I would do the text "haha found you on facebook!" thing so you don't come across like you were stalking her.

I would do it immediately before she sees the invite and thinks you're a weirdo.
I looked up her company and found a post she made on it's wall.

I'll probably text "Impossible to find, huh? Never underestimate my Facebook hunting skills in the face of extreme boredom."
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Old 07-18-2012, 02:59 PM
 
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I wouldn't admit to that. I would let her keep guessing how you found it.
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Old 07-18-2012, 03:01 PM
 
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I had an excellent first date Monday night. At the end of it she mentioned how her Facebook is restricted and impossible to find but mentioned something about how I'll get to see something "when I Friend you." I found her Facebook on my own and hit Send Friend Request, thinking it would bring up some options. Instead it just sent her a request and now I feel funny. I wanted to just send her a message along the lines of "Ha! Found you!" and am thinking of maybe texting this to her. If I repeal my request, she'll probably be confused since chances are it went to her email already.

I feel like a fool. I'm not sure how to handle it now... Maybe I should call and leave a message explaining that I did it my accident?

Try:
Hi, I looked for ten seconds through google and found you. Have a good one, enjoyed the date and of course I left you a propper Friends request. Thanks.
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