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09-23-2009, 11:03 AM
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Join Date: Sep 2009
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I am a 40 year old woman being pursued by a 25 year old man.I spent 18 years of my life married so,I am not easy nor ignorant.However,companionship is something we all need.So,I am really confused and clueless about this whole situation.
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09-23-2009, 11:18 AM
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The prelude to Terrapin
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Join Date: Nov 2006
Location: FL
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Quote:
Originally Posted by piscesgurl69
I am a 40 year old woman being pursued by a 25 year old man.I spent 18 years of my life married so,I am not easy nor ignorant.However,companionship is something we all need.So,I am really confused and clueless about this whole situation.
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Then, enjoy the companionship. After being married for 18 years, you can see that wasn't "forever". We have all been programmed to think that things will last forever; they don't, not the grass, not your flowers, not your life....live in the now! 
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09-23-2009, 03:14 PM
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Senior Member
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Join Date: Jun 2007
Location: Rockland County New York
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I was 29 and my wife 22 when we got married and we are very happy.
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09-23-2009, 03:15 PM
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Senior Member
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Join Date: Jun 2007
Location: Rockland County New York
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Quote:
Originally Posted by piscesgurl69
I am a 40 year old woman being pursued by a 25 year old man.I spent 18 years of my life married so,I am not easy nor ignorant.However,companionship is something we all need.So,I am really confused and clueless about this whole situation.
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There is nothing to be confused about. Enjoy him while it last and walk away with the nice smile he gives you.
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09-23-2009, 03:33 PM
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Senior Member
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Join Date: Jan 2009
Location: Silicon Valley
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For me it's about compatibility. If I am on a different level when it comes to everyday life, conversations, and he is still in " I need to f--- everything in site mode" its not going to work. I am in a "been there done that" mode and I don't have time for men that haven't even gotten to that point yet.
It doesn't make that person a bad choice, just may be better suited for someone closer to his own age group. I prefer older men period.
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