Is the orgasm that important after all? (guy, 2015, neighbor)
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I've only had them via my rabbit I think I'm broken that way otherwise
No, you're not broken. You know you can have one, and you do have them. 1/3 of women cannot have an orgasm without clitoral stimulation. Others have other specific needs. It doesn't mean you're broken. It means you need a patient, loving partner, and time to explore.
I regard them as fundamental for physical and mental health, kind of like an apple a day... Not that we can't get by without them, but for optimal enjoyment of life, that daily "apple" is key, imo.
Himain,
You can only get an orgasm when you masturbate but not with a partner?
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Originally Posted by Ruth4Truth
No, you're not broken. You know you can have one, and you do have them. 1/3 of women cannot have an orgasm without clitoral stimulation. Others have other specific needs. It doesn't mean you're broken. It means you need a patient, loving partner, and time to explore.
Don’t understand why women put all the responsibility on men when it comes to sex. A man can be Superman in bed but what if the woman just lays there like a starfish, her mind is somewhere else, and so on? Believe it or not, women can be terrible in bed, not just men.
I don’t think she’s broken either. There may be women who prefer masturbation and get off with that but not their partner; there may be a problem right there.
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I regard them as fundamental for physical and mental health, kind of like an apple a day... Not that we can't get by without them, but for optimal enjoyment of life, that daily "apple" is key, imo.
Himain,
You can only get an orgasm when you masturbate but not with a partner?
Don’t understand why women put all the responsibility on men when it comes to sex. A man can be Superman in bed but what if the woman just lays there like a starfish, her mind is somewhere else, and so on? Believe it or not, women can be terrible in bed, not just men.
I don’t think she’s broken either. There may be women who prefer masturbation and get off with that but not their partner; there may be a problem right there.
Was not expecting you to admit doing it. Cool.
What if a man has a weird fetish where he wants you to dress up like a starfish and just lie there?
I babysat for a family when I was around 13/14 and they had a copy on their bookshelf. I'd wait for the kids to go to bed, and then read it.
Good for you!
I gave the book to both of my kids when they were teenagers.
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