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I did "couchsurfing" last weekend (essentially stayed with a stranger) for one night, who was really nice, interesting and very attractive. Although his house was a bit gross and he was one of those hippy types who still smells a bit funky even after showering.
Anyway we got on very well, and I felt like there was sexual tension the whole time. I felt he liked me too. He told me he was poly and in a relationship with a woman in his home town and another woman who lives 9 hours away.
I left one night early (1) because he was making me nervous because I found him very attractive and (2) his house was a bit dirty and smelled weird. It was a weird mixture of desire and disgust about his house. I made an excuse about meeting a friend and left.
I am still thinking about this very attractive stranger who was a terrible slob. I am now staying 2 hours away from him for the next few weeks and would like to see him again. However after that I am moving overseas.
I am thinking I might message him and say that I thought he was not only lovely and interesting, but I also found him attractive to the point it was making me slightly nervous. And say something like, hope you'll take it as a compliment. I'm not expecting anything really as I am moving soon, he already has 2 girlfriends and he may not even like me.
Is a message like that a bit strange? I am always very honest with men and some like it but others don't.
Otherwise I could just not tell him.
Men on this forum, would you want to receive a message like that, or is it too much?
I guess I don't really have much to lose and if he gets back to me to say sorry I didn't feel the same that's OK.
I did "couchsurfing" last weekend (essentially stayed with a stranger) for one night, who was really nice, interesting and very attractive. Although his house was a bit gross and he was one of those hippy types who still smells a bit funky even after showering.
Anyway we got on very well, and I felt like there was sexual tension the whole time. I felt he liked me too. He told me he was poly and in a relationship with a woman in his home town and another woman who lives 9 hours away.
I left one night early (1) because he was making me nervous because I found him very attractive and (2) his house was a bit dirty and smelled weird. It was a weird mixture of desire and disgust about his house. I made an excuse about meeting a friend and left.
I am still thinking about this very attractive stranger who was a terrible slob. I am now staying 2 hours away from him for the next few weeks and would like to see him again. However after that I am moving overseas.
I am thinking I might message him and say that I thought he was not only lovely and interesting, but I also found him attractive to the point it was making me slightly nervous. And say something like, hope you'll take it as a compliment. I'm not expecting anything really as I am moving soon, he already has 2 girlfriends and he may not even like me.
Is a message like that weird? I am always very honest with men and some like it but others don't.
Otherwise I could just not tell him.
Men on this forum, would you want to receive a message like that or is it too much?
I suppose I don't really have much to lose and if he gets back to me to say sorry I didn't feel the same that's OK.
So what would be the point of sending him a note telling him he's lovely and you were so attracted to him that it made you nervous?
Especially when you're getting ready to leave the country?
I haven't really thought it through. I'm leaving in 5 weeks.
I don't think I would want to step foot in his house again. It was seriously gross. It smelled like old, wet dog mixed with something mouldy. I couldn't eat anything for the 24 hours I was there I was so disgusted by the weird smell. I am a clean freak.
But I might if he came to visit me. I feel vaguely ashamed writing this. Ha ha.
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