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Old 07-28-2012, 08:08 AM
 
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Its not stupid, its the most natural and primal instinct. If youre looking for a relationship, its a whole different ball game. I hate to bring up cliche talk here, but this is exaclty why bad boys get laid all the time. Women are still sexualy attracted to them, but know right away that these dudes arent LTR material. Thats why being a jerk to a woman will often land her in your bed the fastest. On the other end of the spectrum, guys that have there ish together and act like gentlemen towards women, are automaticaly put in the possible BF/LTR material category and have to wait and often beg for sex for a period of time.



This. This. And this

 
Old 07-28-2012, 08:11 AM
 
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They want a virginal, perfect woman who will sit by herself, waiting until he's done 'sowing his wild oats' and then when he's ready, she's supposed to fall all over him and be devoted to him forever.

It's a bit exaggerated, but you get the point.
You are really, really bitter. I mean damn.
 
Old 07-28-2012, 08:14 AM
 
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You are really, really bitter. I mean damn.
Actually, she's got a point.

Women who sleep around like men do are seen as wh*res, while it's seen as normal for men to sleep around.

So of course men aren't going to admit that she's right, and neither will niave women. But she is right.
 
Old 07-28-2012, 08:20 AM
 
Location: Pittsburgh
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You are really, really bitter. I mean damn.
Nah, she's just expressing that miracle perfect woman that some guys want. You know, the one who's really good in bed without having slept with anyone. Not unlike the woman who's not a golddigger, but who's not independent and capable, either. Or the woman who's not clingy, but who also needs him more than anyone else.
 
Old 07-28-2012, 08:21 AM
 
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Nah, she's just expressing that miracle perfect woman that some guys want. You know, the one who's really good in bed without having slept with anyone. Not unlike the woman who's not a golddigger, but who's not independent and capable, either. Or the woman who's not clingy, but who also needs him more than anyone else.
^^^^ THIS!

Yet, we have impossibly high standards? Yeah okay. lmao
 
Old 07-28-2012, 08:31 AM
 
Location: Up in the air
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You are really, really bitter. I mean damn.
Bitter? Perhaps. Unfortunately my bitterness is rooted in reality because I've heard this from more men than I can remember. Men that bragged about lying to get into girls pants and then demanded a virginal or near-virginal woman to marry or be in a relationship with. As an old coworker put it 'some women are for screwing, some are for marrying, they're never the same.'
 
Old 07-28-2012, 08:32 AM
 
Location: New Jersey
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No man wants a virgin. They just dont want a s*** that's been passed around in the whole community

It's not as hard as you guys make it seem

well at least you admit that much
 
Old 07-28-2012, 08:34 AM
 
Location: New Jersey
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I hate to sound like one of those female posters who you're referring to in that comment, but some of us actually do not participate in that. Hell... I've never even had a one night stand (even though the vast majority of my female friends have), because to me that's dirty and slutty. I was raised to believe ladies will never allow a man in her pants until after several dates and there is a common attraction/bond there (deeper than the animalistic/lust level obviously).

Again, this is only my experience, and yes I have been dumped by quite a few guys because I go by this golden rule standard.

it's their giant egos that lead them to beleive they can get any woman in bed. which in turn explains what I always say: if it doesn't happen they end up treating you like garbage. happens every time. because that was their expectation, not yours.
 
Old 07-28-2012, 08:53 AM
 
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Shut up Ascension!! Shut up. I agree. Some women deny it, but it's true. Depending on the age of the women -- "he swept me off my feet" or "I made him think it was his idea".
THanks, i thought you were disagreeing at first, so ignore the DM reply. Its just a reality, nothing wrong with it either, makes this world more fun.
 
Old 07-28-2012, 08:55 AM
 
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Bitter? Perhaps. Unfortunately my bitterness is rooted in reality because I've heard this from more men than I can remember. Men that bragged about lying to get into girls pants and then demanded a virginal or near-virginal woman to marry or be in a relationship with. As an old coworker put it 'some women are for screwing, some are for marrying, they're never the same.'
What's wrong with that? Not every woman is relationship material. Just like not every man is relationship material. There's probably guys you've slept with that were attractive, great in the sack but weren't relationship material. But for some reason, When a guy points that out he's a jerk
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