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Old 08-22-2012, 06:54 AM
 
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except for attractive women when they are most desired 18-24, who all mistake kindness for weakness. But your fantasy story sounds alot nicer so you can believe what you will.
That's just a lie you guys like to fool yourselves with. You're not rejected because you're kind, since you're not kind. You have no idea how sadly transparent the lot of you are.
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Old 08-22-2012, 04:08 PM
 
Location: Central California
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The only way a girl will ever go out with me is if she is willing to lower her standards by a lot. Do any women ever do this?
There's only 2 ways a woman will go out with you:

1) She lowers her standards.
2) You improve your attitude.

The only way to guarantee dates is #2


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Old 08-22-2012, 05:22 PM
 
Location: Up in the air
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That's just a lie you guys like to fool yourselves with. You're not rejected because you're kind, since you're not kind. You have no idea how sadly transparent the lot of you are.
As one of my 'self proclaimed nice guy' friends said, "I'm a nice guy, why won't these ******* pay attention to me?!"
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Old 08-22-2012, 06:03 PM
 
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As one of my 'self proclaimed nice guy' friends said, "I'm a nice guy, why won't these ******* pay attention to me?!"
I wonder if they truly believe their own words. They speak disrespectfully of women, sexist about women, call women names, and then they claim to be nice guys. It's a bit crazy.
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Old 08-22-2012, 06:14 PM
 
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I wonder if they truly believe their own words. They speak disrespectfully of women, sexist about women, call women names, and then they claim to be nice guys. It's a bit crazy.
Delusional nincompoops.
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Old 08-22-2012, 06:38 PM
 
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That's just a lie you guys like to fool yourselves with. You're not rejected because you're kind, since you're not kind. You have no idea how sadly transparent the lot of you are.
Perhaps thats why i rarely get rejected and have no problem attracting women at all. Odd how that works, huh? =)
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Old 08-22-2012, 06:45 PM
 
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Perhaps thats why i rarely get rejected and have no problem attracting women at all. Odd how that works, huh? =)
I don't buy that any single man who hangs out on CD complaining about women and speaking poorly of women has good luck with women.
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Old 08-24-2012, 08:02 AM
 
Location: Virginia
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When they get older and become sane, yes they eventually lower their standards.
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Old 08-24-2012, 09:52 AM
 
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Every time I come on to this forum and converse in any way with some of the male posters here, I lower my standards. I feel ashamed and dirty and tainted by my interactions. I must be a masochist
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Old 08-24-2012, 06:24 PM
 
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Every time I come on to this forum and converse in any way with some of the male posters here, I lower my standards. I feel ashamed and dirty and tainted by my interactions. I must be a masochist
Agreed There are some awesome dudes on here, but a lot of them make me sad.

I will say though, regarding 'lowering their standards', if the women's standards were at the men's level they wouldn't be complaining, they'd be lauding the women on their good choices. If the women's standards are any higher, they're 'obviously asking for too much' because they're looking for men better than themselves. So, maybe it's a blow to their self esteem and ego that a woman would demand more than they can offer and so they bag on the women for having 'high standards'?

I say this because I got in an argument with a male friend of mine yesterday night about standards and he says mine are too high because I won't date a pot smoker. He's a regular smoker. I think he was butthurt that he wasn't 'good enough' for me because of it and decided to blame my standards instead.
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